Middle aged women and younger men

McSack

McSack

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Something I notice more and more lately is how many women in their 30's and 40's are opting for younger partners. Mostly I reckon it's 3- 4 years difference, but I have one friend in her mid 40's who is seeing a guy of 32.
Something else I've noticed is the trend is pretty much exclusive to my white friends. If I look at my group of male friends, all the whiteys (with the exception of one reprobate who is seeing a girl young enough to be his daughter) are involved with older women... all my black mates have partners way younger than them

Are older white women just becoming more aggressive in their approach to relationships? Are they moving away from all that touchy, feely ,"it's all about the personality" stuff, and becoming more interested in the "physical" attributes of who they choose to be with?
 
McSack said:
Something I notice more and more lately is how many women in their 30's and 40's are opting for younger partners. Mostly I reckon it's 3- 4 years difference, but I have one friend in her mid 40's who is seeing a guy of 32.
Something else I've noticed is the trend is pretty much exclusive to my white friends. If I look at my group of male friends, all the whiteys (with the exception of one reprobate who is seeing a girl young enough to be his daughter) are involved with older women... all my black mates have partners way younger than them

Are older white women just becoming more aggressive in their approach to relationships? Are they moving away from all that touchy, feely ,"it's all about the personality" stuff, and becoming more interested in the "physical" attributes of who they choose to be with?
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There's more than just the physical appeal although that's a biggy obviously. Younger guys are more open minded and less demanding than middle aged men. We weren't raised to believe we have the right to make demands of women. And we're better lays. And we enjoy going down on women.

I would have thought the appeal of younger guys for older women was fairly obvious.

A better question would be what the attraction of older women is for men. Since my gf is 15 years older than me I feel qualified to offer an opinion.
Middle age women are less full of ****. They're more comfortable with themselves and less uptight about sex.

I could sing the praises of older women for pages.
 
copacetic said:
I know two people personally who are in their mid twenties, both married to women in their 40's.
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I often wonder about that kind of age diffs. Might seem pretty cool now but what when they get to their 40's and their wenches are in their 60's ? What will life be like living with a crotchety old granny ?
 
@Nick

Don't you think that as you get older, the "older woman" attraction fades .
Not sure of your age, but I know when I was in my 20's and 30's, I found the 40 y/o's attractive as all hell. Now that I'm in my 40's, women 15 and 20 years older than me seem to have lost their appeal.
 
McSack said:
@Nick

Don't you think that as you get older, the "older woman" attraction fades .
Not sure of your age, but I know when I was in my 20's and 30's, I found the 40 y/o's attractive as all hell. Now that I'm in my 40's, women 15 and 20 years older than me seem to have lost their appeal.
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I'm 34 and have only fairly recently started seeing women more than a few years older as potential romantic and sexual partners. I'm attracted to women ages just legal right up to 50 odd. Older women tend to be more emotionally stable and wiser which to me are very attractive traits. Perhaps when I am older I'll be more patient and willing to put up with a younger woman's foibles. Who knows? Relationships in general don't stand the test of time so I hardly spend much time worrying about her being old aged when I'm still relatively young.
 
McSack said:
I often wonder about that kind of age diffs. Might seem pretty cool now but what when they get to their 40's and their wenches are in their 60's ? What will life be like living with a crotchety old granny ?
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I would have considered bonking a hot woman in her 40s (if I wasn't engaged already), but certainly not marrying one, precisely because I don't want to be stuck with a granny when I reach her age.
 
@McSack. Am I right in guessing you view the older woman/ younger guy thing as some what distasteful?
 
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Mike Hoxbig said:
I would have considered bonking a hot woman in her 40s (if I wasn't engaged already), but certainly not marrying one, precisely because I don't want to be stuck with a granny when I reach her age.
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That's fair enough but the chances are that you'll end up with someone you can't stand the sight of in twenty years anyway.
 
I've dated 2 women who are older than me. a 4 and 3 year age difference. It's absolute bliss. I love their maturity and their woman-ness :)
There's another one with an 7 year age difference. She's wonderful. I might even do the inconceivable and get married, since i adore her so much.
 
Nick333 said:
That's fair enough but the chances are that you'll end up with someone you can't stand the sight of in twenty years anyway.
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That's at least more manageable than having to stop by to collect your wife's pension after work. How do you face yourself in the mirror after that? :D
 
Mike Hoxbig said:
That's at least more manageable than having to stop by to collect your wife's pension after work. How do you face yourself in the mirror after that? :D
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Lol. :D Depends how hot she still is.
 
Is there any older females dating younger males on this forum to give us some insight to why this is so from a female perspective...?
 
SEF said:
I've dated 2 women who are older than me. a 4 and 3 year age difference. It's absolute bliss. I love their maturity and their woman-ness :)
There's another one with an 7 year age difference. She's wonderful. I might even do the inconceivable and get married, since i adore her so much.
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And there's this other one i like to visit now and then. Also about 3/4 years age difference. I can't remember when last i dated someone who was younger than me. :D

And this indian lady who is about 43. She's great. So classy. :)
 
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SEF said:
And there's this other one i like to visit now and then. Also about 3/4 years age difference. I can't remember when last i dated someone who was younger than me. :D

And this indian lady who is about 43. She's great. So classy. :)
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How old are you?
 
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