She's preggy but hiding it...

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sonxEr77

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I've been noticing all the signs and beside, she missed her periods. Problem we not married (my irrisponsibility yeah), but thats a minor, big problem she's still studying (1st year). I ddin't want to mess up her life but yah, this is happening. Personally, i don't mind a baby because am over 30 and this is my first born. How did i find out? well, she uses my PC to log on fb so she probably forgot to logout, so i landed on her profile chats where she disclosed to this guy. Am still bit shocked and she doesn't know i know as she's currently watching TV, i'm at my computer room. Whats the best thing to do and this is for her sake? Baby is gong to disdurb her school :(, and, i feel she betrayed me becuase she said she was using contraceptions. Yes i should have played safe all the way.

Anyway, thats my story
 
perhaps the reason she is hiding it is that you are not the father, strange that she has told some guy fb friend before you...
 
Congratulations(that is if the child is yours)!!! When he/she grows up you can tell them all about how you first learned about their moms pregnancy.
 
Fader4 said:
perhaps the reason she is hiding it is that you are not the father, strange that she has told some guy fb friend before you...
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that would be eina if true... anyhow, she can't hide it forever & hope it all works out okay
 
Fader4 said:
perhaps the reason she is hiding it is that you are not the father, strange that she has told some guy fb friend before you...
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I would be very worried about this, why is she telling some random guy? Sounds dodgy. Who was this guy? Hopefully for your sake it is her best friend who is a screaming queen.

Confront her because it's only going to eat you alive.
 
When I saw the title I thought news24... But on a serious note just go for a preg test and if c is. Get ready to give your life away!! :twisted:
 
killadoob said:
I would be very worried about this, why is she telling some random guy? Sounds dodgy. Who was this guy? Hopefully for your sake her best friend who is gay

Confront her because it's only going to eat you alive.
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He snooped through her facebook so how does he even start that conversation?
 
Yeah could possibly not be yours buy also possible she is scared to tel you.

I take it this guy she told is actually a good friend?

Also contraceptives not 100% unfortunately so possible she was taking.

Good luck dude and congrats I guess.

I personally would confront her.
 
Maybe try honesty?
Hi honey, you left your facebook page open and I saw...

No contraception 100% effective
Good luck
 
zizo911 said:
When I saw the title I thought news24... But on a serious note just go for a preg test and if c is. Get ready to give your life away!! :twisted:
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We went to buy a home tester 2 days back cause she told me the Doc said she skipped the contraception so needed to bring pregnancy test results before next appointment. She did the test alone told me was negative :( ... all dogdy but could be age, she young ...will talk to her tonight
 
sonxEr77 said:
We went to buy a home tester 2 days back cause she told me the Doc said she skipped the contraception so needed to bring pregnancy test results before next appointment. She did the test alone told me was negative :( ... all dogdy but could be age, she young ...will talk to her tonight
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if i were you i would be wondering what else she is hiding.
 
Erm what doc did you go to that told you to use a home kit instead of a blood test?

Things sounding dodge, are you being for real op?
 
D3x! said:
Erm what doc did you go to that told you to use a home kit instead of a blood test?

Things sounding dodge, are you being for real op?
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read op again, it seems op never spoke to the doc himself.... so perhaps she was lying about what the doc said? if she lied about the results of the test who knows what else she is not being honest about?
 
theone said:
He snooped through her facebook so how does he even start that conversation?
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Well she is not telling about the baby, he snooped seems pretty fair to me. You go in and say why are you lying to me about the baby?

She will ask how do you know, respond with WTF does that matter? Then from there depends on the people but it could one of many ways :D.

She seems a bit worried about it, whether it's because she has been boning some other dude or she is just worried he may kick her to the curb i guess it's hard to say. I think perhaps you guys are going to get him all worried about another man when she is just worried what he will say or how he will react.
 
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sonxEr77 said:
I've been noticing all the signs and beside, she missed her periods. Problem we not married (my irrisponsibility yeah), but thats a minor, big problem she's still studying (1st year). I ddin't want to mess up her life but yah, this is happening. Personally, i don't mind a baby because am over 30 and this is my first born. How did i find out? well, she uses my PC to log on fb so she probably forgot to logout, so i landed on her profile chats where she disclosed to this guy. Am still bit shocked and she doesn't know i know as she's currently watching TV, i'm at my computer room. Whats the best thing to do and this is for her sake? Baby is gong to disdurb her school :(, and, i feel she betrayed me becuase she said she was using contraceptions. Yes i should have played safe all the way.

Anyway, thats my story
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Just walk up to her right now and tell her you know she's pregnant. It's much bigger than accidently seeing this on FB I mean really, she's pregant and not telling you. Just walk up to her right now and tell her you know and ask her if you are the father. Go do it now. Post results.
 
killadoob said:
Well she is not telling about the baby, he snooped seems pretty fair to me. You go in and say why are you lying to me about the baby?

She will ask how do you know, respond with WTF does that matter? Then from there depends on the people but it could one of many ways :D.

She seems a bit worried about it, whether it's because she has been boning some other dude or she is just worried he may kick her to the curb i guess it's hard to say. I think perhaps you guys are going to get him all worried about another man when she is just worried what he will say or how he will react.
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Nah that's irrelevant why she's keeping it a secret or telling some other guy. They need to start acting like adults, both must sit down and be honest, this isn't Days of our Lives. I'm more stunned as to why OP would rather post this here instead of just walking up and confronting her like a man. Grow a pair of balls OP already good god. Off ya go.
 
Akima said:
Nah that's irrelevant why she's keeping it a secret or telling some other guy. They need to start acting like adults, both must sit down and be honest, this isn't Days of our Lives. I'm more stunned as to why OP would rather post this here instead of just walking up and confronting her like a man. Grow a pair of balls OP already good god. Off ya go.
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Well i think he was worried about the snooping bit. Your advice is harsh but sound :D.

Would be interesting what she has to say though, shame i hope for OPer he doesn't get i don't know when he asks if he is the father.
 
sonxEr77 said:
My biggest worry ... Did she even begin to take contraceptions? or was it all a lie to get pregnant?
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Does it matter now? You are going to have a kid dude. You should be over the moon. The rest you can sort out but for now make sure the bastard is yours :D.
 
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