Zewp
Banned
(disclaimer: title is a generalization, but I know it doesn't apply to everybody)
So, one of my brother's friends came over this weekend, I spent some time with them (mostly ensuring my brother doesn't get ****faced) and lo and behold, this girl falls for me. And there lies part of the issue. Two days of knowing her and she's already trying to arrange that she spend the weekend at my flat this coming weekend.
I could still (kinda) overlook the fact that she's grade 12, seeing as there's only three months of school left for her. She's rather attractive, and normally I wouldn't really mind a relationship with someone like her, but this forwardness of hers just puts me off entirely. Not to mention I'm actually currently interested in someone else (note: male), who I'm still not sure is gay or not.
Obviously, nothing is going to come of it, and I still need to figure out a way to let her understand it gently, seeing as I'm more than willing to be friends with her. I'm just wondering, when did it become the norm for girls to be so forward? I don't like subscribing to gender stereotypes, but I'd expect this of a guy, not really a girl. Especially not a high-schooler.
So, one of my brother's friends came over this weekend, I spent some time with them (mostly ensuring my brother doesn't get ****faced) and lo and behold, this girl falls for me. And there lies part of the issue. Two days of knowing her and she's already trying to arrange that she spend the weekend at my flat this coming weekend.
I could still (kinda) overlook the fact that she's grade 12, seeing as there's only three months of school left for her. She's rather attractive, and normally I wouldn't really mind a relationship with someone like her, but this forwardness of hers just puts me off entirely. Not to mention I'm actually currently interested in someone else (note: male), who I'm still not sure is gay or not.
Obviously, nothing is going to come of it, and I still need to figure out a way to let her understand it gently, seeing as I'm more than willing to be friends with her. I'm just wondering, when did it become the norm for girls to be so forward? I don't like subscribing to gender stereotypes, but I'd expect this of a guy, not really a girl. Especially not a high-schooler.