Looking for advice on dating/relationships/what to do next etc.

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Oh boy, the responses to this should be good.

So, as half the forum knows cause I QQ'd harder than a 5 year old who's cookie was stolen, my 3 year long relationship ended recently.

A few things shocked me being single for the first time after 3 years;

1) Not knowing what to do with my free time. This is dangerous because lots of free time + broken heart = stupid stunts to get a girl back.

2) Realizing how few friends I have or how many I've lost.
2.1) How unavailable some friends have become (pregnant, children, working, too far away etc)

So now I want myBB's advice (and I know there will be trolls, but there will be advice too so it's fine).

What do I do next? I started seeing a girl after my ex - which hasn't developed into anything serious and idk if it could either.
Do I commit to the next serious relationship?
Do I stay single for a long time now?

Also for the next girl should I date someone who I know is going to be long term relationship material? As in, someone I know won't break my heart etc?
 
Do you even want to be in a relationship?
 
...and are you going to request a username change?
 
What do I do next? Get yourself knee deep in pussy!
 
Hamster said:
Do you even want to be in a relationship?
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Yes, but the girl I want just broke up with me so... No? I don't know...
Hamster said:
...and are you going to request a username change?
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Only if it becomes usernameladiesman69
.QQ. said:
What do I do next? Get yourself knee deep in pussy!
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Already did that once since the break up, it was not nice... You get used to how someone feels after 3 years and this was just a weird experience.
 
No... Stay single for a while, it's going to suck for a while but your wounds have not healed yet, judging by:

You get used to how someone feels after 3 years and this was just a weird experience.
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This will just cause more probs in your new relationship...

Sleep around for a while.
 
Stop posting on a forum about it for one.

No, wait, first request a username change, then stop posting.

Most ill-fitting name since InternetSwag.
 
Unless you think you'd be any good at one night stands(I sincerely doubt it), spend a minimum of 2 years celibate. Learn to be self reliant.
 
I would say spend time with friends and don't go looking for a relationship so soon. When the time is right, it will happen.
 
1. Stay single for a while.
2. Shag anything that is legal and moves.
3. Wear a tight-fitting condom.
 
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