TheMightyQuin
Not amused...
Oh look...the desperate for attention muslim has arrived.Drinking is haram would never do such things
No one cares about your stupid religious bullshit.
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Oh look...the desperate for attention muslim has arrived.Drinking is haram would never do such things
Most muslims smoke like a chimney thoughDrinking is haram would never do such things
So, in your opinion, is abstinence during the week, with binging on weekends better or worse than someone who regularly consumes a moderate amount of alcohol? Like me, for instance, who has a beer or a glass of wine almost daily - and then sometimes has a bit more back to back on special or social occasions.
I will be clear, in my opionion, Binge drinking is one of the biggest problems with alcohol consumption, and the primary thing that leads to people having real addiction and severe health complications from it.
I have also lived with addicts. My brother went down a very bad path with amphetamines once upon a time, so I am familiar with the whole sober living scenario
But would you, out of your experience, think that alcoholism is an alcohol problem, or is there a deeper underlying mental health issue, which is just in some individuals triggered by alcohol?
There are now too many events (threads) to keep up with with this guy... but he is leading in all of them. Definitely bringing home a bag of golds.Which mental gymnastics did I miss: anecdotal, emotional, car analogies?
I have given this a lot of thought in relation to this thread - and especially after a few others here mentioned how giving up alcohol didn't really impact their lifestyle, and disconnecting from it in all the places it is consumed socially wasn't really a problem for them. On that measure alone, I then definitely do have a "problem".Perhaps a question you need to ask yourself is why do so many of the things you do need to involve alcohol even if in moderation? Can the activity be separated from the alcohol or do you need to have a drink? Is a pattern of alcohol consumption not a warning sign, even if in moderation?
Maybe not, but I am yet to taste the "alcohol free" beer or wine that doesn't taste awful - and if one is not a fan of sweet sugary drinks, there aren't that many alternative options. Never mind the use of alcohol in cooking - there is literally no replacement for red wine in a sauce, or whiskey or brandy, etc.At the end of the day you don't NEED the alcohol content to have something that tastes nice.
Yes, apparently - but the fact that moderate consumption also has zero long-term negative impact has also been proven. Anecdotal evidence on top of this further proves that reasonably "high" long-term consumption also doesn't - only extreme levels of consumption have real health negatives. I am talking about my lived experience with octagenerians in across Europe who drink daily and have done so their entire lives."the health benefits" have largely been disproven.
Culture is important. no one is saying all of it needs to be kept, and we cant learn from it, but keeping ones culture alive is important."Because our forefathers did it" is literally the dumbest reason to do ANYTHING - it's the exact reason that things such as racism, slavery etc still continue to this day.
No one so far has tried to justify wanting to drink. I have purely stated I do, and I dont see a problem, and have put what I believe are reasonable questions forward to those advocating that the end of alcoholic consumption is a good thing. Some, like @HermeticAnarchist have put forward reasonable explanations. Others, who do not support drinking or do not see value in it have also put forward some reasonable points. Some have however, tried to make it all about alcohol abuse/misuse, which I have argued is a seperate argument. The one argument here I have and will not accept is the idea that is being put forward by some that there is absolutely no societal value brought by alcohol - or that its negatives are so heavy they easily outweigh any positive.If you want to have booze... shap. That's your choice. I do from time to time.
The mental gymnastics to justify wanting to drink alcohol literally sounds like an alcoholic trying to avoid meetings.
Just say "I drink sometimes because I like to" and that's fine... there's no reason to defend it.
I cannot agree, and cannot see how anyone can objectively look at the entire question of it and come to that conclusion.Alcohol is basically a "net negative".
So, it is an individual issue - not an alcohol issue?And for many people it's a big problem. Different individuals have different brain chemistry, personality types, circumstances etc.
Ja, ek kak my ook toe... Thats why we very seldom eat out.
Perhaps a question you need to ask yourself is why do so many of the things you do need to involve alcohol even if in moderation?
I have given this a lot of thought in relation to this thread - and especially after a few others here mentioned how giving up alcohol didn't really impact their lifestyle, and disconnecting from it in all the places it is consumed socially wasn't really a problem for them. On that measure alone, I then definitely do have a "problem".
For me to cut it out of my life would be almost impossible without completely uprooting my life. I literally live on a wine estate, my father is a wine maker. I have my own small hobby vineyard and which I make "experimental" wine on, for my own consumption and to share with friends. Another hobby of mine is distilling, and I make grappa from the remnants of my wine-making hobby, and also from pomace I get from family and friends. I also brew my own small batches of beer as a hobby. These are literally the things I do to entertain myself when the weather is bad, and I can't be out doing outdoor activities. So literally all of that will have to change for me to walk away from drinking. Then obviously also changing my diet entirely, because I will no longer be able to eat more than half of our family's traditional cuisine.
Then there is the economic side of things: I am a shareholder in a gin business; I mean, technically I could keep that position, but not consume the product, but that would make me a massive hypocrite. I am a director of a charity that is 100% funded by alcohol companies - so I would need to give that up, along with the business networking opportunities that come with that. I recently became a silent partner in my brother's new bistro (the same brother who used to have the amphetamine issues) - which means my name in on the liquor license there, and it means I attend a lot of wine pairings and so on there, which are hard to do without drinking wine.
Then there is obviously the social side of things, the friends I have made, some of them solely as a result of my wine and beermaking hobbies. So I would need to find new social circles. Then there are all the events one is invited to where there are celebrations and toasts and so on - sure there are non alcohol options for these, but they are never as nice tasting as the real stuff - and one can only drink so much sparkling water. All of this hasn't even factored in the social life losses from spending time with the old oomies sipping red wine and grappa and listening to their stories.
So, I would essentially need to completely redesign my life if I were to cut out alcohol - and I really dont want to - because it's a damn good life.
Most muslims zol though
I've not experienced this anti-alcohol rhetoric. Maybe I'm just running in different circles.
I've not experienced this anti-alcohol rhetoric. Maybe I'm just running in different circles.
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I'm built like Winnie the Pooh so clearly I don't run in your circles.I only have hot hunks running in my circles![]()