Was about to say that. Girls who don't try aren't into you. You are doing all the work here, if you've asked her out many times and she said she's "busy" and will get back and doesn't, she's not into you and doesn't want to go out with you.
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Nick333
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Ja. Ask a chick out once. If she makes excuses maybe say come on or how about another time. If she still says no then shrug and walk away. Heres the thing: if she's just playing hard to get she will ask you when she feels like it. I can't promise she will but you asking her again will not help your cause.
Tip: if she calls you or sms's you one evening wanting to get together tell her you have something on but you'll call her afterwards if she wants. You might just get lucky on the first date.
Mike Hoxbig
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Lol you guys read too much into things. There's no need to sink to their level to determine whether they like you or not. If you like her then tell her, that way you know immediately if you're wasting your time or not and there's no need to break your head wondering if she likes you or not.
3 years ago I ran into a girl who I had a crush on in school. I told her that I had a crush on her but didn't have the balls to act on it back then, but I'd like to go out for dinner and catch up. She agreed and 3 years later we're still together.
Don't put off for tomorrow what you can do today.
If you ask her out and she tries to delay it or comes up with some excuse then tell her fine she must let you know when she's free, while you move on with your life. Then you try to accommodate her into your schedule, not the other way around. Easiest way to switch roles.
3 years ago I ran into a girl who I had a crush on in school. I told her that I had a crush on her but didn't have the balls to act on it back then, but I'd like to go out for dinner and catch up. She agreed and 3 years later we're still together.
Don't put off for tomorrow what you can do today.
If you ask her out and she tries to delay it or comes up with some excuse then tell her fine she must let you know when she's free, while you move on with your life. Then you try to accommodate her into your schedule, not the other way around. Easiest way to switch roles.
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Mike Hoxbig
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I just said that.
Hehe don't beg you pansy
Why shrug and walk away with her having the final say when you can shrug and walk away with you having the final say? 
Nick333
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Hehe don't beg you pansy
Pansy now is it? Fccker.
Ja, fair enough but it doesn't hurt to show willing. This one time I met this chick at a friends house one weekednd, got her number and sms'd her on the following monday saying how are you and we should get together. She sms'd back on the friday (the cheeky cow). She was like I'm busy I don't when we can get together, blah, blah. I pushed it a bit then just said ok let me know when you're free. She called me that evening after work but by then I had made plans but she was quite persistent so I said ok I'll call you when I'm done. Which she did and I picked her up and we spent the rest of the weekend together and a lot more time after that.
Another time at band camp I met this chick in a bar and we were getting on well so I asked if she wanted to do something that evening (club or whatever) she was like um, ah, I have this thing to do etc., etc. I just shrugged and left it at that. When I decided to leave and was saying goodbye she suddenly says, hey I thought we were going to do something.
So, obviously a little begging doesn't hurt.
The point is when a woman says no it doesn't always mean she's not interested. She might not be sure of you or she doesn't want to seem to eager or some *****. If, however, she is interested your not giving a fcck will drive her nuts.
Mike Hoxbig
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Yeah but it's not like you completely don't care - you made the first move by saying something after all. And begging might work sometimes, but at the cost of your dignity
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Yeah but it's not like you completely don't care - you made the first move by saying something after all. And begging might work sometimes, but at the cost of your dignity
Ja, ja obviously I didn't mean have a big whiney beg. I just mean push the point a little.
Sheesh, but you do like to argue the minutiae.
She is psycho. Marry her or move on to the next psycho.
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Either get another job, or ask her about giving a definite answer cos you think about her but if she's not interested that you won't ask her ever again, and move on with your life.
Its really bad seeing the one you admire. Either let her go or get out of the same air as her.
Its really bad seeing the one you admire. Either let her go or get out of the same air as her.
satanboy
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sounds like she isn't interested...move on
go stalk someone else
go stalk someone else
Easier said than done. Maybe I must go over to the Dark Side. All or nothing.
UnUnOctium
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Nothing will blow up in your face if you forget about her. Say the ocassional hi/hello but that's about it. Relegate her to the bottom of your priority list.
Conack
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I'm with him. I'd highly recommend scratching her off your "to do" list...
BinaryJack
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For the love of everything that is unholy and filthy...please do not, under any circumstance approach her.
She has made it abundantly clear that she is not interested.
However, for the sake of entertainment, follow the following steps and post the follow up thread as soon as you can.
Step 1: Send pictures of your cock via email.
Step 2: Follow step 1 with leaving some fecal matter on her chair with a love not from you.
Step 3: Follow step 2 with ejaculating on a tissue and hand it to her saying:"You are so beautiful, you make my cock cry."
The last and final step will be you declaring your love in public, the more people, the better.
When laughter ensues, take up the courage and sing her a ballad, something creepy and emo-ish and cut yourself until she says yes, or until you bleed to death, whichever comes first.