Blind Sided

[BrianStephan]

I think this is the worst thing about relationships everything is going great no problems whatsoever. Then suddenly u get a sms or phone call out of nowhere that is over not by any choice of yours but by your significant other and the reasons dont add up.

 

[Pitbull]

I think this is the worst thing about relationships everything is going great no problems whatsoever. Then suddenly u get a sms or phone call out of nowhere that is over not by any choice of yours but by your significant other and the reasons dont add up.

GF or Wife?

 

[BrianStephan]

GF

 

[RazedInBlack]

Then whats the problem?

 

[BrianStephan]

happens to me 2 often

 

[Pitbull]

GF

That sucks. Just sounded like it might have been a wife

That would have been nasty . How long have you 2 been together?

 

[Voicy]

Problem is they aren't heartbroken by it because they see it months ahead of the time - and they orchestrate the ending to perfection. I bet you she has some other guy in the pipeline already (for lack of a better phrase).

Don't feel like you are a loser because she broke up with you, rather consider her the weak one who didn't know how to communicate properly when there were problems to begin with.

Oh and - enjoy december

 

[BrianStephan]

We were together for 1 and half years

 

[RazedInBlack]

We were together for 1 and half years

IMO thats way too long in anycase! She did you a favour dude! Be grateful atleast.

 

[porn$tar]

Why are there always so many breakups in December?

 

[BrianStephan]

Doesnt make it hurt any less

 

[killadoob]

The moon aligns with the sun and makes females hornier for other men.

It's all about the bloody moon .

Dude you need to just buck up and think positive, nothing you do will change the fact it's over. It is not easy just ignoring it and carrying on with life but the hands of time only move one way .

 

[Pitbull]

We were together for 1 and half years

Then this must leave one hell of a sting sorry mate.
And this time of the year also, can't be fun.

I suggest you go on leave all by your lonesome and head to the beach or maybe the Drakensberg. Let yourself go and who knows, maybe you bump into someone you might just be compatible with

 

[SlinkyMike]

Dumped right at the beginning of summer?
The parties... the nightlife... the festivals... the concerts...

Dude ...JACKPOT!!!

There really could not be a better time to find yourself single and 'not ready for anything serious'... go forth, have an awesome summer and leave a trail of knickers in your path.

 

[BrianStephan]

Thanx Pit maybe I should

 

[Pitbull]

Dumped right at the beginning of summer?
The parties... the nightlife... the festivals... the concerts...

Dude ...JACKPOT!!!

There really could not be a better time to find yourself single and 'not ready for anything serious'... go forth, have an awesome summer and leave a trail of knickers in your path.

Funny how people see this as being a blessing

Would love to hear you when it happens to you

 

[RazedInBlack]

The moon aligns with the sun and makes females hornier for other men.

It's all about the bloody moon .

Dude you need to just buck up and think positive, nothing you do will change the fact it's over. It is not easy just ignoring it and carrying on with life but the hands of time only move one way .

Ye lunatics are so easy when this happens.

 

[BinaryJack]

happens to me 2 often

What is the common denominator?

 

[porn$tar]

Sounds like she found a bit of Summer Loving, I suggest you do the same. Expect the "I made a mistake" messages in the new year.

 

[BrianStephan]

The common denominator is the gf's the reasons I got from both dont add up so what can I do