Can we have a feels thread? Share your feels...

bokdrol said:
That's it. You guys have memories of an elephant.

Well rather earlier than later. Some guys go through decades of marriage then get "confused" and leap out of the closet in their late 40s. Happened to a few friends of mine. Meantime wife is too old and depressed to make a new start and is saddled with the kids, who are angry with dad. Meantime dad is gyrating in trendy clubs tossing E down his gullet and having sex in cars while wife is at home wondering if, for 20 years, he has found the idea of touching her repulsive.
Click to expand...

geez what a douchebag....
 
bokdrol said:
That's it. You guys have memories of an elephant.

Well rather earlier than later. Some guys go through decades of marriage then get "confused" and leap out of the closet in their late 40s. Happened to a few friends of mine. Meantime wife is too old and depressed to make a new start and is saddled with the kids, who are angry with dad. Meantime dad is gyrating in trendy clubs tossing E down his gullet and having sex in cars while wife is at home wondering if, for 20 years, he has found the idea of touching her repulsive.
Click to expand...

It is sad, but I am pretty sure it is hard for the dad also.

And not all gays can be found gyrating in trendy clubs taking E and having sex in cars :)
 
Ockie said:
It is sad, but I am pretty sure it is hard for the dad also.

And not all gays can be found gyrating in trendy clubs taking E and having sex in cars :)
Click to expand...
I realise this, but in this case he went overboard. I just wish that he had come out in his twenties so her life wasn't wasted on him.
 
bokdrol said:
I realise this, but in this case he went overboard. I just wish that he had come out in his twenties so her life wasn't wasted on him.
Click to expand...

Was not necesarily wasted. As with the many many other couples that gets divorced there are bound to be many many happy memories. She got two kids out of it which I am sure she loves dearly. The only factor that is different is the reason for the divorce.

If a woman of 40 gets divorced because lets say he husband cheats, or perhaps she cheated, and she moves on with her life, then what is to stop another woman of 40 moving on with her life because the husband came out as gay? The only thing that changes really is the reason for divorce. What happens after that is up to the individual parties.

Unfortunately a lot of men found themselves in a time and society where getting married and having kids was expected. I am not condoning it, but I for one am very very thankfull that I did not have to live with that kind of pressure to satisfy everyone around me and in the process live a lie.

Also, it does not mean he did not love her.
 
bokdrol said:
That's it. You guys have memories of an elephant.

Well rather earlier than later. Some guys go through decades of marriage then get "confused" and leap out of the closet in their late 40s. Happened to a few friends of mine. Meantime wife is too old and depressed to make a new start and is saddled with the kids, who are angry with dad. Meantime dad is gyrating in trendy clubs tossing E down his gullet and having sex in cars while wife is at home wondering if, for 20 years, he has found the idea of touching her repulsive.
Click to expand...

Sounds like fun..

but without the manlove.
 
She loved him dearly and so did the children. She had no idea. There was nothing wrong with their sex life either. She thought the marriage was perfect. It came out of the blue and only after he had done the gyrating and car sex thing. Then he blamed his father and wanted to move back. She has moved on but she will never forgive him for what he did to the kids (threatened them that he would commit suicide while the boy was trying to write matric etc). She let him stay in the granny flat but kicked him out a few months ago because he was shouting at the children, throwing hissy fits and bringing rentboys home.
 
bokdrol said:
She loved him dearly and so did the children. She had no idea. There was nothing wrong with their sex life either. She thought the marriage was perfect. It came out of the blue and only after he had done the gyrating and car sex thing. Then he blamed his father and wanted to move back. She has moved on but she will never forgive him for what he did to the kids (threatened them that he would commit suicide while the boy was trying to write matric etc). She let him stay in the granny flat but kicked him out a few months ago because he was shouting at the children, throwing hissy fits and bringing rentboys home.
Click to expand...

Well lets just leave the gay label and just slap a "po$s" label on him....cause that is what he is then.
 
Ockie said:
Well lets just leave the gay label and just slap a "po$s" label on him....cause that is what he is then.
Click to expand...

he is a gay puss then :p gay being the chief reason he acts like such a camp little bitch

edit: if he was straight he would be an Alpha :D
 
Ockie said:
Well lets just leave the gay label and just slap a "po$s" label on him....cause that is what he is then.
Click to expand...
True. He is just a nasty piece of work, regardless of his orientation.
 
bokdrol said:
She loved him dearly and so did the children. She had no idea. There was nothing wrong with their sex life either. She thought the marriage was perfect. It came out of the blue and only after he had done the gyrating and car sex thing. Then he blamed his father and wanted to move back. She has moved on but she will never forgive him for what he did to the kids (threatened them that he would commit suicide while the boy was trying to write matric etc). She let him stay in the granny flat but kicked him out a few months ago because he was shouting at the children, throwing hissy fits and bringing rentboys home.
Click to expand...
I was going to blame societal homophobia but, now I think the dude might just be a cnut more than anything else.

Sounds more like a bisexual dude playing the gay card as an excuse for acting the fecking fool.

Unless he's suffered some sort of severe head trauma in the past?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top
Sign up to the MyBroadband newsletter
X