Can't keep it up...

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d0b33

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I'm having trouble maintaining an erection, or getting it as hard as I used to... I've looked up erectile dysfunction but I don't have a problem getting an erection I just can't maintain it the way I used to which required no effort at all! really embarrassing now since I have a partner and we've only started doing it and I just can't perform the way I could! :cry:

I might have to try Kegel exercises or get a boost from viagra maybe?

advice needed...

Update:
Looks like it was just a case of performance anxiety, nothing serious.
Update2:
Hmmm, having some minor issues again.
 
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Wasn't there an ad on tv about this? Just can't think of the name right now.
 
There could be a whole lot of medical reasons for this. I know for a fact that if you have high blood pressure and taking medication for this - that plays a big part on your "performance' . Best you speak to your doctor about this.......
 
give me your email address.
i know some people who can help :D

btw, it's kegel exercises. i had no idea they could help men as well. you learn something new on mybb every day...
 
The penis is, if you will, a barometer of the relative hotness of a girl. If he hangs instead of stands. Perhaps, try shagging her without glasses?
 
Aqua get maximor china.

I am not sure if your sex life is timed or just random bangin but anyhow maximor is the business dude. If you cannot maintain an erection on maximor you best go see a specialist.
Also i am wondering if you may have performance anxiety, often what can happen is let's say you have an off day, you start thinking there is something wrong and then during sex you focus so much on it that it becomes a problem.


Another thing i found to be insane is something called plasmajet. Made by gaspari. Unreal dude.
 
I say go see your GP so that he can take your blood pressure. ED can be a symptom of a more serious underlying cause. If that is ruled out then you guys can take it from there.
 
i hear rhino horn is good for this type of thing.....
 
Picard said:
How old are you?
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GhostSixFour said:
The penis is, if you will, a barometer of the relative hotness of a girl. If he hangs instead of stands. Perhaps, try shagging her without glasses?
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She is foreign, from the baltic region... so think along dark blonde and green eyes, let there be no doubt about the hotness, she is hot ;)

murraybiscuit said:
btw, it's kegel exercises. i had no idea they could help men as well. you learn something new on mybb every day...
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Yeah I thought I hope I never spelt it with a "b" earlier, I did... draft coming in from current affairs maybe.

killadoob said:
Aqua get maximor china.

I am not sure if your sex life is timed or just random bangin but anyhow maximor is the business dude. If you cannot maintain an erection on maximor you best go see a specialist.
Also i am wondering if you may have performance anxiety, often what can happen is let's say you have an off day, you start thinking there is something wrong and then during sex you focus so much on it that it becomes a problem.


Another thing i found to be insane is something called plasmajet. Made by gaspari. Unreal dude.
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lol dude love your replies and the way you deliver them :D cracks me up, thanks I'll see if I can get those.

millennia said:
Performance anxiety...
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Yeah, I think so too.. woke up this morning thinking this one ain't too bad, so I thought I'd see how long I could hold it and if I can be harder and then I just went soft, so I think I'm putting too much pressure on the poor bloke, he has not done it in a while...
 
Leave the docs and pills alone.You just reinforcing the thought that'there might be something wrong with me'which leads to more anxiety.If you can maintain an erection on your own without any pressures there absolutely nothing wrong with you.The problem is in your head....the big one that is.
 
You are Muslim hey Aqua? If so maybe you haven't recovered Ramadan. I know it drains people out. So give it some time and eat lots of healthy food for a week or so.
 
Heita_Hola said:
You are Muslim hey Aqua? If so maybe you haven't recovered Ramadan. I know it drains people out. So give it some time and eat lots of healthy food for a week or so.
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So I was right about the draft from Current affairs... you've brought the stench in here with you.. no I'm not Muslim and have a foreskin to prove it.
 
BOYAH said:
Leave the docs and pills alone.You just reinforcing the thought that'there might be something wrong with me'which leads to more anxiety.If you can maintain an erection on your own without any pressures there absolutely nothing wrong with you.The problem is in your head....the big one that is.
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good advice, thanks it is mental I suppose, i have all these expectations but I know i'm out of practice... need the right confident, relaxed mental attitude... but will try some things mentioned above as well.
 
Aqua_lung said:
So I was right about the draft from Current affairs... you've brought the stench in here with you.. no I'm not Muslim and have a foreskin to prove it.
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What draft? My apologies if my comment didn't go down well. Anyway I hope you get sorted with your erection problem. :p
 
Update:
Looks like it was just a case of performance anxiety... last night I decided to not pressure myself with performing as well as I'd expect and it went well, I'm regaining my confidence so will get better I suppose.
 
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