Chasing Ghosts

[BrianStephan]

U guys must love me by now lol but here's another question ever break up with your g/f, b/f and then in your mind still think you have a chance and end up still sending them gift's etc....but in the end realized you have wasted your time and money doing it?

 

[RazedInBlack]

No!

 

[PokerKing]

Nope

 

[porn$tar]

No

 

[hyperian]

looks like it's just you brian

 

[Venom Rush]

Yes, but I'm a sucker for punishment.

 

[BinaryJack]

No.

 

[BrianStephan]

I havent just asking who has

 

[PokerKing]

I havent just asking who has

You have a weird way of thinking

 

[BrianStephan]

Be that as it may still a relevant question

 

[Chaos247]

What you've just described could be seen as stalking.

That’s going to end with you being slapped with a restraining order or her new bf beating the tar out of you.
Welcome to reality, enjoy your stay.

 

[Crowley]

Down the road, not across the street.

 

[BrianStephan]

Its fighting for someone not stalking

 

[Old_Username]

I am going to be completely blunt.

If she broke up with you she does NOT want you around anymore. Neither does she want little reminders of you popping up everywhere.

Suck it up and move on. Chances are she already has.

Breakups happen for a reason. If you get back together the very same issues will resurface. Move on

 

[Chaos247]

Its fighting for someone not stalking

Ever asked yourself, who am i fighting against?
Are you fighting her, for her love? Does that even make sense to you?

The other person is probably oblivious to your state of mind until you completely freak them out. You're ruining your chances, if there are any.

Anytime you find yourself in a reality where the population is 1. It’s not a health place to be in. You need let go for a while and try again when you have a better grip on your mind and emotions.

 

[killadoob]

I am going to be completely blunt.

If she broke up with you she does NOT want you around anymore. Neither does she want little reminders of you popping up everywhere.

Suck it up and move on. Chances are she already has.

Breakups happen for a reason. If you get back together the very same issues will resurface. Move on

Sending gifts is a bit ummm stalker like i think .

Take that money and get plastered at a bar .

 

[RazedInBlack]

I am going to be completely blunt.

I wouldn't expect anything else!

 

[Chaos247]

Sending gifts is a bit ummm stalker like i think .

I rest my case.

 

[porn$tar]

Take that money and get plastered at a bar .

And have drunken sex with complete stranger. I cannot over-emphasise how therapeutic this is.

 

[Old_Username]

Sending gifts is a bit ummm stalker like i think .

Take that money and get plastered at a bar .

ya think???

Time to move on I think.

I had an ex follow me around and push love letters under my door for 6 months
Determined? Yes
Made me regret breaking up? NOT ON YOUR LIFE. It was sad actually, I felt sorry for him.

When girls break up with a guy, believe me, they've been thinking about it for months on end and their decision is pretty much final. Swak but true. So her decision might be swayed initially if the guy insists he can change etc etc, but ultimately her initial decision holds the most ground.

Brian, it's December, tons of pretty girls everywhere. Forget the one who no longer wants anything to do with you and save yourself a couple bucks