Cheaters

Simple answer.

Hell no.

If they felt the need to cheat... then there was either something wrong with the relationship to start with. If it was simply "a mistake" then you could not trust them again... Imagine having to worry about it happening again every time your SO goes out.


Simply not worth the heartache.

Never mind the fact that if your SO shows that little respect to you, why should you be in this relationship any longer...
 
A sexual one night stand? Probably once. If it happened a 2nd time then no.

An affair? No

Falling in love with another woman? Never.

To me the biggest betrayal will always be an emotional betrayal. I used to be able to seperate sex and love - the lines have blurred now that I've experienced the 2 in unison - but I think I could over look 1 indiscretion. But not more than one. Once is a mistake. Twice & its over.
 
I am amazed at what some people will endure - emotional and physical infidelity - and still stay in the relationship "for the sake of the children" or for money.
 
I reckon you have no respect for yourself if you let someone do that to you.

To hell with the history between you two.

EDIT: What Miss Blu said.
 
blunomore said:
I am amazed at what some people will endure - emotional and physical infidelity - and still stay in the relationship "for the sake of the children" or for money.
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Not for the money in this case : as mentioned, she'd be a rich women if she just left him.

Perhaps it's for the kids and in that case I agree with you - why would anyone do that? No one in the family is going to be happy ultimatly. She's not going to get the 'happy' marriage as her parents once did.
 
Hillary Clinton did. Guess somethings are more important than arb sex.
 
Dolby said:
Not for the money in this case : as mentioned, she'd be a rich women if she just left him.

Perhaps it's for the kids and in that case I agree with you - why would anyone do that? No one in the family is going to be happy ultimatly. She's not going to get the 'happy' marriage as her parents once did.
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Kids can feel if things are wrong between their parents, no matter what 'happy' mask you wear.

I think it's better to have two happy parents living apart from each other than an unhappy family unit.
 
w1z4rd said:
Hillary Clinton did. Guess somethings are more important than arb sex.
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I think every person has one or more 'deal breakers' in their relationship. For some it is infidelity, for others it is substance abuse, etc.

Clearly Hilary do not see infidelity as such a big issue.
 
The_Librarian said:
Who said her parents had a happy marriage? :)
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According to the article, she said so ...

She always says she wanted to emulate her parents' long and happy marriage.


blunomore said:
Kids can feel if things are wrong between their parents, no matter what 'happy' mask you wear.

I think it's better to have two happy parents living apart from each other than an unhappy family unit.
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Yup - which is why I said everyone is going to be miserable :/
 
blunomore said:
I think every person has one or more 'deal breakers' in their relationship. For some it is infidelity, for others it is substance abuse, etc.

Clearly Hilary do not see infidelity as such a big issue.
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Or maybe she did but she loves her husband and made a promise to stand by him. If she chose to work things out and eventually forgive him then that's her choice. If I loved my husband enough I would probably (no garauntees) try to work things through too.
 
blunomore said:
I think every person has one or more 'deal breakers' in their relationship. For some it is infidelity, for others it is substance abuse, etc.

Clearly Hilary do not see infidelity as such a big issue.
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Yeah.. I think her and her family have bigger issues to deal with than personal jealousy. I guess not every family measures their love with the act of sex.
 
w1z4rd said:
Yeah.. I think her and her family have bigger issues to deal with than personal jealousy. I guess not every family measures their love with the act of sex.
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True. Different strokes for different folks.

I would not share my life with someone I cannot trust. Infidelity has nothing to do with, as you put it, "personal jealousy". It is about trust.

But hey, that's just me and the values I espouse.
 
OT: When I read the thread title, I thought to myself, now what Mr Blu do now? :p

Coming from the "other" side, I have been taken back, and now we married.

Indeed, Gordon has built up a £60 million food empire on the back of his ideal family and the woman he called 'my wife, my lover and the person I want in my bed and in my arms every night'.
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When men start talking like that, I automatically get curious.
 
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