Cheaters

Well if he cheated on her once and it was never going to happen again and she stayed because of the kids and/or money and/or comfort... okay fine... But a 7 year relationship with another woman? My gosh! Its going to continue.

Cheating even once, even kissing is a deal breaker for me. And the biggest deal breaker of all, throwing water inside my pc! GF always threatens to do that!
 
I don't get it. The wife is hot. The mistress is a dog. Why is this always the case? Could it be that the wife is maybe a little frigid? Inhibited perhaps?
 
mOOey said:
I don't get it. The wife is hot. The mistress is a dog. Why is this always the case? Could it be that the wife is maybe a little frigid? Inhibited perhaps?
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Huh? Are we looking at the same pictures? Even if the platinum blonde types are not your cup of tea, she does look a lot better than the wife, IMO.
 
sox63 said:
Huh? Are we looking at the same pictures? Even if the platinum blonde types are not your cup of tea, she does look a lot better than the wife, IMO.
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:eek: Are you talking about the Platinum blonde Tranny in the picture?
 
blunomore said:
True. Different strokes for different folks.

I would not share my life with someone I cannot trust. Infidelity has nothing to do with, as you put it, "personal jealousy". It is about trust.

But hey, that's just me and the values I espouse.
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I totally believe in the whole trust thing.. and I understand its importance. You are right about it being about the trust.. so guys.. if you cant keep your pekker under control.. date bisexual woman and get the best of both worlds :D
 
sox63 said:
Huh? Are we looking at the same pictures? Even if the platinum blonde types are not your cup of tea, she does look a lot better than the wife, IMO.
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Mkay, personal taste then.:)
 
According to P&T.. only two animals in the life are truly monogamous... the vulture and the tape worm.
 
superB said:
A sexual one night stand? Probably once. If it happened a 2nd time then no.

An affair? No

Falling in love with another woman? Never.

To me the biggest betrayal will always be an emotional betrayal. I used to be able to seperate sex and love - the lines have blurred now that I've experienced the 2 in unison - but I think I could over look 1 indiscretion. But not more than one. Once is a mistake. Twice & its over.
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+1

I agree, but my SO doesn't know that. He thinks he'd be outta here after the first infraction :D
 
Gazer said:
+1

I agree, but my SO doesn't know that. He thinks he'd be outta here after the first infraction :D
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Wise. He might just use up his "one chance" before you finish saying it.:D
 
Dolby said:
I don't believe in mistakes
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Well then you must be perfect, completely infallible and incapable of doing wrong.

When do you expect to receive your comendation as the latest saint?
 
superB said:
Well then you must be perfect, completely infallible and incapable of doing wrong.

When do you expect to receive your comendation as the latest saint?
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What s/he meant, was that infidelity is intentional and not just a 'mistake'.
 
That is what I meant.

Have you slipped into bed with a random by mistake, superB?

I think there is a choice. That's what I meant
 
Dolby said:
That is what I meant.

Have you slipped into bed with a random by mistake, superB?

I think there is a choice. That's what I meant
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No but I've made impulsive decisions that I later regret and come to think of as a mistake. The mistake in my mind being that I should never have chosen to go down that particular road.

mis·take (m-stk)
n.
1. An error or fault resulting from defective judgment, deficient knowledge, or carelessness.
2. A misconception or misunderstanding.

We have all found ourselves in situations of impaired or defective judgement to some degree or another. I am not making infidelity acceptable but I am trying to be objective. People make bad choices. Sometimes those choices are made because judgement is clouded by any number of things. Once again, not license to go out there and jump in the sack with some random because you are drunk. But yes, good people make bad choices based on bad judgement. If their actions were not malicious or 100% intentional, then yes, I could see it as a mistake.
 
superB - as defective as your judgement may ahve been at the time. No matter how bad you feel about it. A person chooses to cheat. Saying "I was drunk", "got carried away", "insert other reason" is no excuse. People do not hook up randomly. It starts with suggestive body language, flirting, touching, talking, and eventually leads down that path....


If you do start down that path (even at the flirting stage) you are doing it intentionally.

Always ask yourself as well, would you be happy if your SO was doing this to some other person of opposite sex, or how would you SO feel about you doing this to some person of the opposite sex.
 
superB said:
mis·take (m-stk)
n.
1. An error or fault resulting from defective judgment, deficient knowledge, or carelessness.
2. A misconception or misunderstanding.
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You're hiding behind definitions :rolleyes:

Could a girl be raped and her attacker claim he made a mistake, as it was defective judgement?

I don't see rape purely as a mistake :/
 
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