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koeks

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Im still trying to sort out her problems. Insecurity is the big one i do love her. now she gets in her car and leaves, help

you need to take control of the situation. if she drives away then she must not come back...

she must grow up. women need to be trained, don't succumb to her every call, she gets used to the fact the runs things.... Guys have balls for a reason, and they are not just for fuvking... man up:mad:

you need to man up and let her know what the rules are... be firm :D

lay down the law!!!!!!!
 

RazedInBlack

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She's blackmailing you with sex?

Tell her to fsck off! Theres plenty women out there!
 

MacBoney

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Thanks guys, i also needed to hear this.........sometimes all i want to do is just go have a cold 1 with the guys and watch sports most the day...........
 

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What do i do? I go and watch rugby and have a few drinks, the G/F freaks out. HELP!!

You left out a couple of details there. You probably come home drunk, expect sex, are rowdy or whatever and turn into an ******* with your friends.

I can name a hundred things why she would freak. There's obviously something you do other than watching rugby and having a few drinks (if it's a few) to make her freak
 

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Or...she just does not like the idea of him drinking or going to a bar, he might be a pretty decent bloke, so nothing here for you to see Dr Frued, move along
 

MacBoney

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Nah i disagree.....woman just want to control us men and i feel that they are selfish sometimes .......plz note that this is just my opinion.
 

pjjdp

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I made a mistake twice;

1. Went out for a jol with the boys. I told her I should be back about 11. Got home @ 2 the next morning. We were @ Te@Zers. Nearly divorced. Took months to get over it. Now 4 years later and she still holds it against me every now and again.

2. Was with her brother at his workshop. @ 4 in the afternoon she phoned and I said, just busy cleaning then I'm home. Needless to say I only got home @ 7:30. Wow. World war 3.5.

Ja, we can never win.
 

Alan

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Offer her a drink or 2!!!

Buddy, wait till you tell her you are just going to the store to buy bread and then stumble back 12 hours later dead drunk, oh boy, hell hath no fury....

:D

Kick her to the curb. How some guys are controlled by their gfs is crazy. People complain about physical abuse but the psychological abuse woman dish out is just as bad IMO
 

koeks

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Nah i disagree.....woman just want to control us men and i feel that they are selfish sometimes .......plz note that this is just my opinion.

they want to control us all the time. they are selfish all the time. everything has to be about them all the time.

E.g
sex they have to get satisfied.
If they are tired no sex.
If they want sex they get sex.
they get to say if you guys can date.

the list goes on...
 

koeks

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I made a mistake twice;

1. Went out for a jol with the boys. I told her I should be back about 11. Got home @ 2 the next morning. We were @ Te@Zers. Nearly divorced. Took months to get over it. Now 4 years later and she still holds it against me every now and again.

2. Was with her brother at his workshop. @ 4 in the afternoon she phoned and I said, just busy cleaning then I'm home. Needless to say I only got home @ 7:30. Wow. World war 3.5.

Ja, we can never win.

:D
 

Kilgore_Trout_Redux

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Ok. Everyone repeat after me :"Girls are nice. They put up with our shìt. They are smooth, soft and have bumps in the right places. As a general rule they improve the aesthetics of a place and more often than not they make us happy."

They can just be a bit volatile at times. It's a small price to paSo let's drop the self pity and celebrate the wonderfulness and baffling enigma that comes with our chomosomally redundant friends.
 
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koeks

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Ok. Everyone repeat after me :"Girls are nice. They put up with our shìt. They are smooth, soft and have bumps in the right places. As a general rule they improve the aesthetics of a place and more often than not they make us happy."

They can just be a bit volatile at times. It's a small price to paSo let's drop the self pity and celebrate the wonderfulness and baffling enigma that comes with our chomosomally redundant friends.

"Girls are nice. They put up with our shìt, so do we. They are smooth, soft and have bumps in the right places.:D As a general rule they improve the aesthetics of a place and more often than not they make us happy, so do we:D"
 

Kilgore_Trout_Redux

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I don't think anyone won in that situation.

I would like to offfer a word of advice since people seem to be struggling to deal with a woman in full rage mode.

In the face ofof a full frontal irrational attack by the missus just agree with her. At this point it doesn't matter who is right and anything you say in your defence is just going to infuriate her further.

Just agree with her and once she has calmed down and the rational part of her brain is engaged again you can make your point.
 

Bizkit87

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haha, with my ex, i had apoligized for so many things, that after a while (when i apoligize) she made me tell her what i apoligized for !!!! :)

and i usually didn't know!
 
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