After reading the posts so far, I must confess. The "friend" I'm referring to is actually me. (Luckily I'm still my own "friend"

) It's an issue that sometimes shadow everything, except at home. At work it's okay, but still sometimes you get that moron who makes an issue of it, and in the overall business world, it's bad for me. I'm afrikaans, so when I start my bad english, oh boy you must hear that.

Just the other day I phoned incredible corruption in Boksburg, and the lady who answered the phone, laughed at me. Man, that was not so lekker. But still I can talk, I could have been a mute.
I've been stuttering (was very bad at first, now it's better though) for 12 years now... been through several therapists, etc... still not gone
Thats why I never tried that. Still can't see how it can help me. It's not like I'm "afraid" of everybody, I just cant speak fluent.
As a stutterer, my friend was taught to "sing" through the words. I must admit that it sounded awfull at first, but throughout the years he mastered the art of "singing".
He developed an "accent" that sounds distinctively "British"
Was just thinking of that the other day. Why dont we stutter while singing? Maybe because we know we'll ***-up the whole song?
i have a slight stutter that only surfaces when i'm nervous or speaking to fast
Same with me too, nervousness is a bastard.
My sister stuttered severely from birth, she attended speech therapy her whole school career (grade 1 to 12), she worked very hard at overcoming her speech handicap.
By the time she was 1st year university she had stopped stuttering and speaks fluently.
I once asked her about it, she said, that to this day before she opens her mouth to speak, she mindspeaks the sentence first.
It helped her, but it still took 13 years? Problem with that, I've tried to "learn" what I must say in a certain situation, but if just one thing falls out of place, like someone interrupts you or something like that, then all of it helps null.
I've read up a bit on that a while ago. That thing costs like R12500! And what they said then, is for some it might not work, or it helps at first, but after some time it all gets worse again.