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Venomous
Honorary Master
bwhahaha :twisted:
satanboy
Psychonaut seven
that is why my wife and I are facebook friends...no secrets
a colleague of mine told me a while back his wife didn't want to accept him as a friend (and told him so in person)...six months later and they were divorced
a colleague of mine told me a while back his wife didn't want to accept him as a friend (and told him so in person)...six months later and they were divorced
murraybiscuit
Executive Member
interesting comparison.
it could be argued that some people go all out to win a spouse and then do very little to add value to the relationship thereafter (or behave destructively).
does this mean that you as the partner then have to stick with the "product" no matter what?
sometimes (not always) "i'll love you no matter what" is an invitation to abuse...
just a thought.
a buddy of mine's wife hooked up with some dude from ct on fb.
he got divorced a few months later.
problem is i never really saw them as being very compatible in the first place.
she was a farm girl who wanted to live with her family.
he was a city boy who wanted to travel and see the world.
they are much happier now. in some ways it's good that it happened - before they had kids.
i can see the logic fails from more conservative communities when they read these stats and try to control people's behaviour.
as always, censorship is a way of treating people like kids (assuming they can't take responsibility for the consequences of their own decisions or make good choices).
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Not adding a spouse is just stupid, who would do that?
A friend of mine asked me last week what to do if his wife writes on someone elses wall and the removes it off her page?
murraybiscuit
Executive Member
[Quattro];5829743 said:
he should communicate with her.
t-a-l-k.
not via facebook.
Venomous
Honorary Master
Yes, I've heard of that happening a few times already.
We know eachother's passwords even & I'm the one that logs on the least.
Last time I logged on was around xmas time.
Venomous
Honorary Master
exactly!
The only times we post on each other's FB pages are our birthdays & then it's more just a formality to show others we remember each others Bdays. & occasionally a silly joke or something.
Talking in person & face-to-face is ALWAYS best.
You can be friends on facebook, but you can still limit/ customize what what each of your friends see on your profile...including your spouse.
By the sound of it though you guys have an open honest relationship though.
I'm sure FB has a lot to say FOR it, but it also has a lot to say against it, just like alcohol. I don't personally know of any personal relationships that went sour as a result of alcohol over the last 18 months or so, but quite a few that suffered as a result of FB
He asked if I can invite the guy on Facebook and go through the wall posts. Do I did. she's always commenting on his status, then removing it of the feed on her wall.
I think I will let him look for himself.
Venomous
Honorary Master
she won't like it, but maybe then they can sort their problems out & move on be it together or...
[Quattro];5830691 said:
Don't forget all that stupid advertising thats adding up and data mining of personal information for $$$
satanboy
Psychonaut seven
