Do girls like muscle?

I'm sure thatdamnJoe could easily wear a dress and pick up a 'woman' on Somerset Road(in Cape Town).
 
Girls love a well sized "love muscle" Some boys too. But shooting roids won't make you well known for having a decently sized love muscle im afraid, quite the opposite really. ;)
 
I think the answer to the OP/s question can be summed up thus : If you want to slay the ladies don't bother. If you want to slay the gay boys you seem to be on the right track.

Not necesarily. If he has got no body hair, then Im not interested...then GayTechie can have him. If he is too muscled and BF too low then Im also not interested. I like a guy with a bit of fatty tissue in the midridge section :-)
 
Well it seems like the roids will at least get him into the sack with someone :D
 
It always depends who and how you wear pink. This looks good: http://www.corbisimages.com/Enlargement/42-21182805.html

Whereas this looks pathetic: http://slog.thestranger.com/files/2007/09/pinkshirts.jpg

Not everybody can wear pink. But it's the same with any other colour. A colour has to compliment you, not make you look stupid. But Osiris85 being goth I guess you have lost every right to give fashion advice... ;-)

And that's exactly how you wear a pink scarf, with blue jeans and grey top, like I do it :-) http://www.busybeeblogger.com/wp-content/uploads/eddie-izzard-pink-scarf-2.jpg
 
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It always depends who and how you wear pink. This looks good: http://www.corbisimages.com/Enlargement/42-21182805.html

Whereas this looks pathetic: http://slog.thestranger.com/files/2007/09/pinkshirts.jpg

Not everybody can wear pink. But it's the same with any other colour. A colour has to compliment you, not make you look stupid. But Osiris85 being goth I guess you have lost every right to give fashion advice... ;-)

lol no man, I dont wear the whole "chains and spikes" kinda thing. Black is my fav colour, but I dress normally. I like the music, the scene and ( believe it or not ) Goths are the nicest people you can meet, most of my friends are goth. When I moved here and went clubbing in Cape Town for the first time, they were very nice. Chatting, partying, buying drinks....hell even when I met my one good goth friend and her boyfriend, I was invited over to their house for coffee with her boyfriend to meet the family :D

Even today, I get calls when they want to hang out or they tell me "my coffee is waiting". It's kinda my "home away from home" kinda situation where I am welcome with open arms
 
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I would like some input from some of the wimmin on here (Mila) etc...

I've been trying to slay this chick which I quite like for the last couple of weeks. I met her at a club through a mutual friend of ours. Got her number and we made out that night. I really thought we clicked and she was really into me.

I've been trying to hook up with her since but no luck. Yesterday I spoke to our mutual friend and she told me the reason she's not intrested is she doesn't like guys with "muscle". She also mentioned guys with muscle usually act like a "douche". Now I just finished my AAS cycle recently and put on quite a bit of mass.

Why didn't she have a problem with it at the club if it bothers her so much?

Do wimmin like muscle in general?

Judging by the wording of your post and general attitude she appears to have being spot on.
 
lol no man, I dont wear the whole "chains and spikes" kinda thing. Black is my fav colour, but I dress normally. I like the music, the scene and ( believe it or not ) Goths are the nicest people you can meet, most of my friends are goth. When I moved here and went clubbing in Cape Town for the first time, they were very nice. Chatting, partying, buying drinks....hell even when I met my one good goth friend and her boyfriend, I was invited over to their house for coffee with her boyfriend to meet the family :D

Even today, I get calls when they want to hang out or they tell me "my coffee is waiting". It's kinda my "home away from home" kinda situation where I am welcome with open arms

I would never judge someone's personality and I am sure they can be nice people. I just said it because of the goth cliché but you got that anyway ;-)
 
I would never judge someone's personality and I am sure they can be nice people. I just said it because of the goth cliché but you got that anyway ;-)

Ya the Cliche' is pretty weird.

lol I remember my friend and I went to Canal Walk the one night and as we were walking, people kept pointing and looking at my friend funny. We thought it was hilarious and the couple behind us whispered "yoh, I think she is a witch or something!". She turned around and said "Yes I am a witch " she looks at me "dude, I think we dont need to walk on looking for blood, I'll just take hers!". Those group of girls turned around and damn near sprinted for the exit XD
 
Ya the Cliche' is pretty weird.

lol I remember my friend and I went to Canal Walk the one night and as we were walking, people kept pointing and looking at my friend funny. We thought it was hilarious and the couple behind us whispered "yoh, I think she is a witch or something!". She turned around and said "Yes I am a witch " she looks at me "dude, I think we dont need to walk on looking for blood, I'll just take hers!". Those group of girls turned around and damn near sprinted for the exit XD

:-)
 
Combating others with more fighting and violence, is good/smart?
Tell your son to also bliksem the bullies back, and then see what happens....

You speak from a perspective where you can afford to adopt a superior attitude and pontificate about “combating others with more fighting and violence...”

Different strokes for different folks. I do not offer this as a panacea.

I was a term boarder at boarding school (this means you only go home during the holidays – end of the term). Home was 5 hours drive away on gravel roads (at the time). It was a farming community and I was a ‘townie’ (city slicker). It was predominantly Afrikaans and I was English. Many of the Afrikaans pupils were refighting the Boer war. I was outnumbered and got picked-on a lot. You had to cope (no mummy to run-to). I developed a strategy.

Speed trumps strength every time (provided you don’t get hit). Attitude is extremely important for a kid subject to bullying. The important thing is to make yourself an awkward and difficult target (so that others are picked-upon). I accomplished this by continually forcing the bully having to wrestle me on the ground to ‘discipline’ me. His white shirt (school uniform) got dirty, he picked-up flak (and sometimes detention) from the teacher etc. Of course, I got beaten-up but it only takes a couple of efforts before you are categorized as an awkward target that won’t be easily bullied. Alternatively, you can be picked-upon for your entire school career and still get beaten-up (a lot more often). “Plenty of other targets to terrorize, Palimino is just awkward and won’t co-operate.” Worked for me until I grew big enough to be left alone. This was at primary school, so you were (by definition) smaller in Std 2 than the hulks in Std 4 and 5.
 
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