Dominate Vs Abusive Men

is there a difference between dominant and abusive men?

  • No difference they are the same thing

    Votes: 8 12.9%

  • Yes there is a difference

    Votes: 37 59.7%

  • I'm not qualified to answer this question

    Votes: 17 27.4%
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    62
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Is there a difference?

Truthfully probably only the ladies are qualified to answer this question but what the hell.

What's your 2cents opinion on this question?



(Perhaps this belongs more in Philosophical Debates section)
 
All I know is that with both of those, women will stick like mud.

Also, why are you asking these sorts of questions? Nothing wrong with it, but what's the intent?
 
One is just one member of the relationship making decisions and driving forward while the other chooses to remain relatively passive. The other is a member abusing the other, psychologically or physically. They're not even close to the same thing.

Also I'm not sure why this topic is restricted to men. Women can, and do, abuse their partners.
 
r4nd0m said:
All I know is that with both of those, women will stick like mud.
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Polymathic said:
Is there a difference?

Truthfully probably only the ladies are qualified to answer this question but what the hell.

What's your 2cents opinion on this question?



(Perhaps this belongs more in Philosophical Debates section)
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Okay well first of all don't exclude the gay, bi or "straight" guys.

Second of all there is a clear difference.

Slapping your partner through the face because they put 2 teaspoons of sugar instead of 3 in your coffee is abuse.
Pulling her/his hair in the bed while making love when the partner wants/allows it is not abuse.

When it comes to emotional abuse it's also very clear. Berating your partner in public or in the house or where ever is abuse it's not a dominating thing.
 
cavedog said:
Okay well first of all don't exclude the gay, bi or "straight" guys.

Second of all there is a clear difference.

Slapping your partner through the face because they put 2 teaspoons of sugar instead of 3 in your coffee is abuse.
Pulling her/his hair in the bed while making love when the partner wants/allows it is not abuse.

When it comes to emotional abuse it's also very clear. Berating your partner in public or in the house or where ever is abuse it's not a dominating thing.
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This is not a LGBTQpoeslappie Thread.
 
A dominant man doesn't have to be abusive. Weaker men are abusive when they try and fail to assert dominance.
 
porchrat said:
One is just one member of the relationship making decisions and driving forward while the other chooses to remain relatively passive. The other is a member abusing the other, psychologically or physically. They're not even close to the same thing.

Also I'm not sure why this topic is restricted to men. Women can, and do, abuse their partners.
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I know a couple guys who have dominant wives and have to say from my perspective their relationships seem borderline abusive
 
Dominant: Bring my beer.
Abusive: Bring my fcking beer you lazy ****peeeep peeeeep****** Woman.
 
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Ill fitting polar neck, slightly oversized jacket, hair seems off and those horrible blue socks. This is clearly a guy who doesn't travel normally travel first class let alone private.
 
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Some woman like to tell you what to do and some like to be told and have decisions made for them.
It goes both ways ;-)

Dominant does not have to imply abuse when 1 person in the relationship is simply more assertive.
 
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