Escalation effect

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Scenario 1 : Met Female,became epic friends,things escalated then... not so epic girlfriend,broke up, not friends anymore.
Makes me regret asking her out.
But I doubt we could have remained just friends if I didn`t ask her out,You could cut the tension with an angle grinder.
Now we don't talk anymore.

Scenario 2 : met female,became friends,I asked out,got rejected, now we aren`t really friendly anymore.
again another(possibly great) friendship down the drain.

Scenario 3 : met Korean female,became friends,became epic friends she stalked me,I reciprocated interest,went out for a while,again epic friend not so epic girlfriend/stalker
We don`t talk either.

QUESTION 1: Can 2 non friendzoned(by both sides) people remain just friends?
Possibly only solution while remaining friends is friendzoning.

QUESTION 2: Can you be friends with your ex?
I highly doubt it since memories of the romantic relationship remain.
 
Are these riddles to be solved? Maybe contact Dr Phil?
 
I'm still friends with three of my ex's - one was even at my wedding last year.

I also have one or two good woman friends....
 
xrapidx said:
I'm still friends with three of my ex's - one was even at my wedding last year.
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You must be a nice guy then. Me? Nah I like to break of clean completely not that I broke up with any female ever!
 
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You must be a nice guy then. Me? Nah I like to break of clean completely not that I broke up with any female ever!
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To much of an effort to hold a grudge - only two relationships ended badly, the others usually ended up with both of us realising we just weren't meant to be together.
 
xrapidx said:
To much of an effort to hold a grudge - only two relationships ended badly, the others usually ended up with both of us realising we just weren't meant to be together.
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Yeah thats what happened with me and the korean,yet we still don`t talk.
We spoke and decided that its better to remain friends.
Now neither of us talk to each other for some reason
 
I mean the first two are just referred to as "female". Why is the ethnicity of the third female mentioned? Fetish?
 
Q1: Yes, if you value that friendship enough to want it continue.
Q2: Yes, but you need some space apart when you break up - time heals the wounds and you'll find yourself being more civil to each other as the years pass (or months, depending on the depth of the wounds).
 
Mike Hoxbig said:
Am I the only one wondering where the escalation is? :confused:
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_Hecate_ said:
Maybe its the lack of escalation?
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Pooky said:
The escalation is in his pants.
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Friendship that escalates into relationship that usually violently and spectacularly explodes into void and all thats left is the hole in the ground.

abzo said:
I mean the first two are just referred to as "female". Why is the ethnicity of the third female mentioned? Fetish?
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Oh because thats what stands out the most for her.
1st was wild animal
2nd was otaku
3rd was korean
Happy? :p

FlatspinZA said:
Q1: Yes, if you value that friendship enough to want it continue.
Q2: Yes, but you need some space apart when you break up - time heals the wounds and you'll find yourself being more civil to each other as the years pass (or months, depending on the depth of the wounds).
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Hmm I see that now,Maybe in the future I can have that epic friendships back
 
nukefission said:
Friendship that escalates into relationship that usually violently and spectacularly explodes into void and all thats left is the hole in the ground.
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Hmm I see that now,Maybe in the future I can have that epic friendships back
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Don't date friends then :p
 
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