Cable loss depends on the cable you use.
Cable to use is any double screen 50 ohm coax, RG214 being the most common provided its a mil spec and not something made in Hinghongho. [

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Half inch celflex is the better way to go but is expensive and so are the connectors.
The is a special 5/8 microwave cable we use on the towers but thats eina expensive.
Regarding how long your cable can be - well first make a 3 meter cable and lug your Laptop or PC around to find the best spot, take a reading and decide how much signal you are prepared to loose on distance.
Flash, yes the antenna have N-Type females and one has a BNC.
Cables I have plenty of and also N males etc.
A friend of ours at Web is going around to see my friend a Fastcomm tomorrow with a whole pile of assorted connectors to see what fits the modem as it seems like a female SMCX (SubMiniture).
Today we opened a modem and I see the little side antenna just also plugs into the modem with a standard MMCX.
My antenna collection is growing somewhat.
Today I aquired another 2 very nice 25 dB gain panels and tommorow I'm getting a 28 dB grid.
We also took a standard 2.4 gig panel antenna and swept it on a analyzer and at 2.5 gig it still showed a return loss of better than -18 dB which makes it pretty good for MyWireless and from what I gather these normally run out at about R250 and offers a good 15 dB gain [

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