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On why men cheat...

http://www.iol.co.za/html/frame_babynet.php?art_id=iol126742313925M523&newslett=0

Men who cheat are stupid - study


London - Deceitful and despicable is one description that wronged wives could apply to their cheating husbands.

Plain stupid is another. For scientists have concluded that men who sleep around are likely to have lower IQs.

It is a finding likely to prove of interest to Cheryl Cole as she contemplates her errant partner Ashley's unfaithful ways.

Dr Satoshi Kanazawa, an evolutionary psychologist from the London School of Economics and Political Science, said the smarter a man is, the less likely he is to cheat on his partner.

His theory is based on the assertion that through evolutionary history, men have always been "mildly polygamous".

That has changed today, however, and Dr Kanazawa explained that entering a sexually exclusive relationship is an 'evolutionarily novel' development for them.

According to his theory, intelligent people are more likely to adopt what in evolutionary terms are new practices - to become "more evolved".

Therefore, in the case of fidelity, men who cannot adapt and end up succumbing to temptation and cheating are likely to be more stupid.

"The theory predicts that more intelligent men are more likely to value sexual exclusivity than less intelligent men," he explained.

According to his theory, the link between fidelity and intelligence does not apply to women because they have always been expected to be faithful to one mate - even in polygamous societies.

Dr Kanazawa's research, in the journal Social Psychology Quarterly, also claims that intelligent people are less likely to believe in God or hold conservative views.

Analysing the American National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, he found young adults who regarded themselves as "very liberal" had an average IQ of 106, while those who saw themselves as 'very conservative' had an average IQ of 95.

Dr Kanazawa's theory holds that self-interested, conservative attitudes are primitive in evolutionary terms, while selfless, liberal views are more advanced and linked with intelligence.

Similarly, those who identified themselves as "not at all religious" had an average IQ of 103, while those who saw themselves as 'very religious' had an average IQ of 97.

According to Dr Kanazawa, that is down to people who are smarter being more open to new ideas.

Those who are less intelligent cling to belief in God, a relic of our evolutionary past, he added.

"Humans are evolutionarily designed to be paranoid and they believe in God because they are paranoid.

"This innate bias towards paranoia served humans well when self-preservation and protection of their families and clans depended on extreme vigilance to all potential dangers.

"So, more intelligent children are likely to grow up to go against their natural evolutionary tendency to believe in God and they become atheists." - Daily Mail
 
One question though...What about women who cheat?
 
One question though...What about women who cheat?


Hi Jono

Here you go :p;)

According to his theory, the link between fidelity and intelligence does not apply to women because they have always been expected to be faithful to one mate - even in polygamous societies.
 
Look at it this way guys - if you're bedding blondes left right and centre...especially in the centre, then who has time to read?

married men on the other hand, have a LOT of reading time....
 
Hi Jono

Here you go :p;)

Good morning. :) Oh my bad...I should read a little slower. :)

But I don't find that entirely true im afraid. lol. Having a, now ex girlfriend, telling me its ok if i sleep around, with hopes that I would later enter an open relationship with her, doesn't make that study very accurate to me.

I bet if they did that study here in East London their findings would be very different. Males and females cheat equally. Even had my ex's, brother's current girlfriend make a move on me saturday, while the poor fool was around. :) Maybe i should read that article sloooowly while no ones looking. lol.

One thing that is true though is people who cheat are a bit stupid. :D

oh wait, women prefer to sleep with the dumber men?? :p
 
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Good morning. :) Oh my bad...I should read a little slower. :)

But I don't find that entirely true im afraid. lol. Having a, now ex girlfriend, telling me its ok if i sleep around, with hopes that I would later enter an open relationship with her, doesn't make that study very accurate to me.

I bet if they did that study here in East London their findings would be very different. Males and females cheat equally. Even had my ex's, brother's current girlfriend make a move on me saturday, while the poor fool was around. :) Maybe i should read that article sloooowly while no ones looking. lol.

One thing that is true though is people who cheat are a bit stupid. :D

Maybe I can find an article on the reasons women cheat - will do some googling. Perhaps it has something to do with finding the right "genes" to pass on to her unborn & therefore she evaluates the males to find out who would be the better father for her off spring or something like that? (Doesn't make a lot of sense actually)

BTW What you described re your Ex is probably the average male fantasy - open relationship, no string attached...
 
Hee, hee. We can blame the men for this one too... (mostly) :D

Why Women Cheat
By Laura Snyder

You guys make it sound like you have to cheat. And you love to blame your wandering ways to genetics. Well, sit down buddy, because according to most research, women are closing the gender gap when it comes to fooling around. Some polls even claim upwards of 60 percent of women cheat on a mate. Why would she do such a thing? Well, it's not her genes...

You Stopped Paying Attention

Of course she wanted to be your sex kitten when you were still plying her with compliments, planning romantic dinners, and surprising her with smooth sex moves. But now that you think you don't need to buy her dinner to get her in bed, she's wondering if she can't do a little better than you.

You Changed...Or Your Relationship Did

You got meaner. Or messier. Or suddenly decided that getting your lazy butt off the couch long enough to grab another beer from the fridge was suitable exercise for the day. While it's good to feel comfortable in your relationship, it doesn't give you permission to let yourself go - unless you want to let her go.

You Cheated on Her

You got busted banging some other babe and now your gal wants to get even. Sadly, some chicks see your infidelity as a "get out of jail free" card that lets them indulge their own cheatin' hearts without the consequences. There's a simple prevention method here: Don't cheat. And if you do, you'd better be unwaveringly reassuring in your feelings of remorse and reform. And maybe buy her something expensive and sparkly.

The Grass is Greener

Just like she'll cheat on her diet to taste that eclair, she might be tempted to treat herself to that tasty new guy in her office just because he's there and looking delicious. Maybe she's bored. Or maybe he's really the man of her dreams. (Hey, we said we'd tell you why women cheat; we didn't say you'd like all the reasons).

She's Just Evil

Some babes are just always looking out for the better deal. She could get off on the illicit thrill of flirting with the forbidden; she could just like toying with nice boys like you. Either way, your solutions are clear. Dump the dame or resign yourself to frequent screenings for STDs.
 
Maybe I can find an article on the reasons women cheat - will do some googling. Perhaps it has something to do with finding the right "genes" to pass on to her unborn & therefore she evaluates the males to find out who would be the better father for her off spring or something like that? (Doesn't make a lot of sense actually)

BTW What you described re your Ex is probably the average male fantasy - open relationship, no string attached...

So in essence she sleeps around to find the right guy? But when this guy is "the one", she realises he's not and moves on to the next? ie the whole cycle repeats? hmmmm, no matter how one puts it, cheating is cheating, and both sexes do it. No amount of explanations would make it right or justify it for a woman to do. :p

Well you know me a bit by now, so should know that's not one of my fantasies. :)
 
While I agree with the findings, I think that linking IQ to religious tendencies is a bit risky (statistics-wise). IQ tests are not a good baseline where there are cultural differences in the sample. Rural people generally perform worse in IQ tests than urban, not because of differences in intelligence but due to differences in lifestyle and culture. Using the same sample, I'm fairly sure that you'd see a similar skew wrt religion if you compared urban and rural populations as you do with IQ.
 
So in essence she sleeps around to find the right guy? But when this guy is "the one", she realises he's not and moves on to the next? ie the whole cycle repeats? hmmmm, no matter how one puts it, cheating is cheating, and both sexes do it. No amount of explanations would make it right or justify it for a woman to do. :p

Well you know me a bit by now, so should know that's not one of my fantasies. :)

I think you have the higher IQ... ;) Your the exception rather than the rule :whistle:

The second explanation is actually better IMO - Men don't give enough attention to their girlfriends / wifes (probably to busy cheating anyways) & then only do they cave & cheat (the women that is).

There is a saying: Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned - hence payback :twisted:
 
Maybe I can find an article on the reasons women cheat - will do some googling. Perhaps it has something to do with finding the right "genes" to pass on to her unborn & therefore she evaluates the males to find out who would be the better father for her off spring or something like that? (Doesn't make a lot of sense actually)

Probably, studies suggest woman are a lot more like to cheat around the time of ovulation. Saw an interesting program on it by that uk doctor that present medical related shows on discovery or natgeo, was part of a greater series of programs about the human body or something.

Edit: Does not explain long term affairs though.
 
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The second explanation is actually better IMO - Men don't give enough attention to their girlfriends / wifes (probably to busy cheating anyways) & then only do they cave & cheat (the women that is).

There is a saying: Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned - hence payback :twisted:

That is a good explanation yes. What im really trying to say is, cheating is cheating. Be it becuase you dont get attention or for revenge. It's cheating and no explanation makes it right or fair.

Men who cheat are douchebags and should have their sacks removed with a butter knife. Women who cheat are whores and should be sewn shut. :) That's my view. lol
 
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