Finding a hobby, and sticking to it.

Gezza

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This has got to be one of the most difficult things for me in life. Choosing a hobby, and sticking with it.

All my school days, I've spent my time in front of my computer. I loved gaming and thought that I would do this in my spare time for the rest of my life. I didn't. I still game often but multiplayer games don't entertain me as much as single player games used to (I'm talking about a time where single player games were fun).

After school I went to the UK for 2 years and got in to Cycling. It was a ton of fun when I was there as I had someone to cycle with. That changed too when I came back home to crap old South Africa.

I used to make fun of my friends for begging me to join them (whenever they discover some new hobby).

The first time they got me in to Rock Climbing. Loved it. I made it my lives ambition to work out and become the best climber that I can be. After paying R9500 for my kit (Rope, harness, crabs, quick draws etc.) my friends decided to stop climbing altogether and they started playing paintball. I had to beg other friends to come climbing with me so that I can still use my kit and do what I loved. Luckily I got people to join me and they loved it too.

My other friends begged me to buy a paintball gun and kit (Around R3000 for a good entry level kit). I declined and they continued playing, for another two months. Paintball was getting old for them now.

After that, the one friend bought himself (this is his next hobby he chose) a 4x4. ****ty piece of crap for R45 000. Naturally the begging came. "Dude, it is so much fun. You should get a 4x4." "Sure...let me just grab R50 000 from my back pocket and buy a 4x4 quick."

Easy to say, I drifted away from these friends a bit.

After hurting my lower back, I had to quit rock climbing. I went to the nearest hobby shop and bought a wooden ship model kit(R1400). Quickly went back home and started building. I've finished 3/4 out of the hull (which was about 2 years ago) and it is now just collecting dust.

While building the boat, I thought I would try out Archery. Bought myself a composite bow (R8500) and shot with it for about 2 months. That got old quick as it was only me.

My next big hobby would be photography, I decided. I've always wanted a DSLR camera and heck...you can use a camera anywhere. Won't just be subjected to taking perfect photos. Went to makro and picked up a Canon 650D (R10 000). I've seen less settings in a rocket ship going to Apollo than on the camera. I didn't have time to learn all the new fancy tricks. Out of around 1800 photos I took, 3 were good. Can't get demotivated quicker than that.

I find it very funny and hypocritical from me that I laughed at my friends with their expensive hobbies that only lasts a month or two. I'm in the same position now, haha.

Who else here is spending an enormous amount of money on crap that you THINK you'll use...but end up using it once or twice.

For me, its:

Composite Bow: R8 500
Wooden Model: R1 400
Rock climbing gear: R9 500 + (bought a lot more stuff after the initial sale)
DSLR Camera: R10 000

Total Wastage: R29 400 +
 
I started photography as a hobby about five years ago… ended up having to turn professional to support my hobby. :)
 
Wow, that's a lot of cash to spend on just trying something out :wtf:
Sounds like you just jump right into things and go all out
Hope you find what you like soon :)
 
You just haven't found the love-of-your-life hobby yet. Perhaps before buying stuff, just hire or loan things to try out the hobby first.
 
Buy an off-road bike and join a club - WIN

Edit post: Do the Desert run rally once in your life and you'll be hooked :p
 
You just haven't found the love-of-your-life hobby yet. Perhaps before buying stuff, just hire or loan things to try out the hobby first.
Buying stuff can be a hobby in itself - just ask my wife. :o
 
Here is a good hobby- hacking. Never a dull moment.
 
You don't like hobbies you like buying stuff... Good luck with that...

Best advice is to go with whatever you spend most of your free time doing and expand on that. For me I listened to music so got into vinyls, easier to expand an existing "like" into a passion than come up with something new.

If you watch TV all day, build yourself a lekker home theatre, join forums about it, hunt for ages for the best equipment etc etc
 
I had a great hobby, Rock climbing. Because of my lower back problems I had to stop.

I am VERY spontaneous though, I will admit. The camera I'll always be able to use, but I would have been able to use the money for something better...like another hobby that I'll only touch for a month xD.

This is not a "Please help me out" thread. Just want to find out how much money you all have wasted on hobbies you think you'll enjoy. Want to feel better about myself, you know :D. And maybe see something you disliked but what I might like.

Buy an off-road bike and join a club - WIN

Edit post: Do the Desert run rally once in your life and you'll be hooked :p

Was close to getting one of those cheap brand off road bikes. But alas, I'm scared of those two wheeled motor vehicles.
 
I bought ice skates last week…
 
I had a great hobby, Rock climbing. Because of my lower back problems I had to stop.

I am VERY spontaneous though, I will admit. The camera I'll always be able to use, but I would have been able to use the money for something better...like another hobby that I'll only touch for a month xD.

This is not a "Please help me out" thread. Just want to find out how much money you all have wasted on hobbies you think you'll enjoy. Want to feel better about myself, you know :D. And maybe see something you disliked but what I might like.



Was close to getting one of those cheap brand off road bikes. But alas, I'm scared of those two wheeled motor vehicles.

Pfft, you either get hurt or killed. There is nothing in between. So don't stress and enjoy :p
 
I have the same issue as most people seem to but I have learnt that alternating between a few hobbies seems to work for me. So every 2 months or so I go back to an old one and enjoy doing it for a while again adding more and more hobbies is a bad idea though.
 
Pfft, you either get hurt or killed. There is nothing in between. So don't stress and enjoy :p

Or take up target shooting. You meet people of all ages, creeds and sex.

Great place to make new friends and be competitive. If you in a relationship and have kids. Everyone can join in and have fun.

Edit: Eish sorry, wanted to edit my previous quote but quoted myself by accident :p
 
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