Getting over a romantic heartbreak

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Speaking from experience ... give yourself a break - 6 months minimum.
Even if some meaningless fun sounds like a good idea .. it isn't.

In a few months you might just meet a person you connect with on all the right levels and you want to be ready for that.
(not dealing with a FWB that decides to make your life all complicated when you want to pursue something serious)
 
OCP said:
Speaking from experience ... give yourself a break - 6 months minimum.
Even if some meaningless fun sounds like a good idea .. it isn't.

In a few months you might just meet a person you connect with on all the right levels and you want to be ready for that.
(not dealing with a FWB that decides to make your life all complicated when you want to pursue something serious)
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I had nfi life was this complicated for straight guys :eek:
 
1 you can not make anyone love you. Love works when it is a 2 way street.
2 rather now after 3 months then 5 years in with kids and everyone loosing with a divorce.
3. the right person will come along when it is the right time.

get some beer and celebrate. Things happened as it is supposed to.
Trust me the there is many fish in the pond. the right one will pop up.
 
qscwbt said:
1 you can not make anyone love you. Love works when it is a 2 way street.
2 rather now after 3 months then 5 years in with kids and everyone loosing with a divorce.
3. the right person will come along when it is the right time.

get some beer and celebrate. Things happened as it is supposed to.
Trust me the there is many fish in the pond. the right one will pop up.
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People say this schit to old maids all the time
 
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ShaunSA said:
OK now tell us about the ones not in your fantasies
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I.am.Sam said:
yeah with your mind you can get anything
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You ask me to reveal past loves, and the longest one, then when I tell the little that I was prepared to disclose, you call me a liar? No wonder you have no friends.
I did have shorter ones, shortest was 1.45m. But I am not going to tell you that.
 
RonSwanson said:
You ask me to reveal past loves, and the longest one, then when I tell the little that I was prepared to disclose, you call me a liar? No wonder you have no friends.
I did have shorter ones, shortest was 1.45m. But I am not going to tell you that.
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You said a gentleman never tells and then proceeded to spill your guts

Is it any wonder we'd rather not be friends with you?
 
supersunbird said:
How does one get over a romantic heartbreak?

Very recently got dumped (after about 3 months together, I thought things were going well), very painful (in my chest) and sad. Last time my heart was broken was 2012 but it wasn't nearly this bad, the other 2 relationships over the intervening years didn't end in heartbreak. My sleep is all messed up, I do not want to work, food is off little interest beyond having to force myself because my stomach is complaining.

So to the people with more experience in these things, how does one deal with it?
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Time, fixes this.
I got depressed when it happened to me a very very long time ago.
When I got over it I realized I could not remember anything about the sad time.

I knew it happened but there was no memories,
weird but my brain did like a safe mode thing and rebooted or something.
 
supersunbird said:
What is with this assumption there was no sex? There was hot steamy sex from the start. Maybe that is part of my feeling of loss?
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Correct.

I dated a low-mileage widow for over 18 months, and we made solemn vows at the very beginning not to exchange bodily fluids before marriage. It wasn't easy, but when it became time for us to part, it was quite easy for me. Like going shopping easy.

In the subsequent months after we "broke up", I opted to remain single, focussed on my work, and making a new home for myself, installing solar, fixing the patio etc. She called me quite often, and we discussed things that we had in common, friends, church, places that we used to go to, things that we used to do together. She also shared that she had met someone else. Mr Y. I told her that was happy for her, and then she stopped calling.

It occurred to me, and it's quite possible, that Mr Y was banging her like a screen door in a highveld thunderstorm. She never told me anything, so I don't know for sure, and I never asked, but it's quite possible. It's their choice, and nothing to do with me. But if/when the relationship goes belly up, I suspect that it's gonna be hard on him.

Never underestimate the power of coitus, and the pain that it can bring you if you or her suddenly discover that you aren't for one another. It's powerful stuff, and I have learned the hard way to leave it until after marriage.
 
Corelli said:
3 months and heartbroken seriously?

Get over it. Book a trip to Bali or Phuket. Meet a hot asian girl and have wild meaningless fun.

The girl back home would be long forgotten.

China would be a good destination too, but more the countryside.

Otherwise here is the thing. Decide which country you would like to emigrate to, and look for a girl from there. Japan, South Korea, Germany and Australia are always good options. America too. Instagram is good for that.

Alternatively there is rural America, but alas some have guns.

This may cheer you up.

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Did you have hot meaningless woman sex with an asian girl / girls :unsure:

dm me the sex tapes...
 
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