Let's not derail the thread here shall we...
On the whole my job woes are 50% my own making... How so? Being willing to settle for anything out of desperation.
When desperate to get out of a situation, all logic and critical thinking flies out the window. The whole story is not revealed either as doing so is disclosure of personal information. So you will have to just trust me on that.
Troubles in life are things we all face, failure is an opportunity to get up and try again. Rather to have failed than not try hey?
Getting back on topic...
I find it rare, that's all, that there are still managers out there that will fight for their staff. That said, I have seen a lot, I am a job hopper so I will readily admit that, perhaps it gives a better idea. My situation is a bit unique, but not unlike some on this forum.
Overall, everyone IS getting poorer. You'd be a fool not to see this. Its not just the less than 5% increases, its the < 4% over the past 5 years, the increase in tax, the horrendous cost of living increases, the cost of fuel, and of course, if you chose badly like I did, to work for fatcats in the past, it kind of messes with your brain. Those guys don't give a fark about you... they will gladly buy other companies, and plead poverty when it comes to increase time, and they treat you as if you are stupid, any fool can see so-and-so got a new Ferrari. Having ASD adds to the mix that I am inherently more a word/codesmith than an office gadfly and my lack of empathy, social skill, and other essential interpersonal skills count for several points against me.
At the moment I do two jobs to get by, the primary one during the day, and the secondary one on weekends to earn extra money to pay for stuff we cannot otherwise afford. The amount of belt-tightening we have done cannot be exceeded, there is no more belt to tighten, and this is what many don't realise is happening for the "disappearing middle class". All I can get, in a month, for myself, is my ADSL line and the ISP package, and a bit of hosting. All my other income goes towards schooling, food, medication (yes Discovery won't pay for PMBs), rent, and fuel. Not enough left to save, and often, in a minus. Cannot afford a new PC, so if it dies I am farked.. You get the picture.
Something has to give, somewhere along the line, and with the way things are in SA, I don't think it will be pretty at all.