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Blasted Mindless

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Here's a question to the guys. This is a behaviorism study for a social group. I know what women think about this, but I'd like some comments from the gentlemen out there.

Why does it always seem that a guy is not 100% happy with the lady in his life. They say 'you're perfect the way you are', yet they gaze upon other ladies like they are goddesses from another planet. Is it really that the lady in their life is just not goddess material, or is there another reason they do this? What do you describe as good enough in a lady that makes her worthy of thy stares :)
 
Blasted Mindless said:
Here's a question to the guys. This is a behaviorism study for a social group. I know what women think about this, but I'd like some comments from the gentlemen out there.

Why does it always seem that a guy is not 100% happy with the lady in his life. They say 'you're perfect the way you are', yet they gaze upon other ladies like they are goddesses from another planet. Is it really that the lady in their life is just not goddess material, or is there another reason they do this? What do you describe as good enough in a lady that makes her worthy of thy stares :)
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because we have that "the grass is always greener..." or bush or whatever mentality.
 
Guys are always going to look at other women. It doesn't mean the woman they're with is any 'less gorgeous'. Women do the same thing (at least all the women I know) and it doesn't bother their bf/husbands because they aren't insecure ;) *ducks the flying bricks*
 
I doubt there's anything sinister behind noticing ppl around you. I think they mostly just look because they see something different or pretty and that's that. If you saw white cars all day and only one red one i'm sure you would look and notice the red one. Its not different or better than the white ones its just that you noticed it. Men & Women both notice people, sometimes men will notice other men and women other women but then its not an issue. Its also the other way around people will also notice things that aren't appealing like a very unattractive man or woman. We're humans after all. Insecurity about these things are silly and trivial.
 
The women in my social group is not so much insecure as they are curious. Insecurity is was a different discussion a few weeks back. That's a subject that was properly discussed and it had a very strong outcome.

This is more about, what goes through your mind when the not so bright blonde with big blossoms walks by you and your wife. What do you think at that moment...
 
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The women in my social group is not so much insecure as they are curious. Insecurity is was a different discussion a few weeks back. That's a subject that was properly discussed and it had a very strong outcome.

This is more about, what goes through your mind when the not so bright blonde with big blossoms walks by you and your wife. What do you think at that moment...
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You think: "Hey look at that not so bright blonde with the big blossoms"
Thats it really nothing to it
Funny thing is even the wife noticed her and thought the exact same thing.
Why it then becomes an issue who knows??

Sometimes the guy would look at a woman then back at his wife and think to himself: "My wifes way hotter than that bimbo"
All the wife sees is him looking at another woman
 
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men like most male animals have a biological imperative to spread their genetic material.
depending on competition, availability of suitors and the environment, their behaviour may differ.
 
Blasted Mindless said:
Here's a question to the guys. This is a behaviorism study for a social group. I know what women think about this, but I'd like some comments from the gentlemen out there.

Why does it always seem that a guy is not 100% happy with the lady in his life. They say 'you're perfect the way you are', yet they gaze upon other ladies like they are goddesses from another planet. Is it really that the lady in their life is just not goddess material, or is there another reason they do this? What do you describe as good enough in a lady that makes her worthy of thy stares :)
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My girlfriend is perfect for my, but I'm still going to look at other ladies its human nature. Just like she comments on how handsome some rugby or football players are.
 
DigitalSoldier said:
My girlfriend is perfect for my, but I'm still going to look at other ladies its human nature. Just like she comments on how handsome some rugby or football players are.
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it's not the jocks you should be worried about, it's the biker with the tattoo or the scrawny accountant driving the aston martin.
 
Blasted Mindless said:
Here's a question to the guys. This is a behaviorism study for a social group. I know what women think about this, but I'd like some comments from the gentlemen out there.

Why does it always seem that a guy is not 100% happy with the lady in his life. They say 'you're perfect the way you are', yet they gaze upon other ladies like they are goddesses from another planet. Is it really that the lady in their life is just not goddess material, or is there another reason they do this? What do you describe as good enough in a lady that makes her worthy of thy stares :)
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Ever thought of us men having natural instinct to want to copulate with any woman we find attractive?

I'm very happy with my wife and won't exchange her for anything. But when I walk in the mall and there is an incredibly hot woman instinct kicks in. But what separates us from our primate cousins, we have a choice to either act on it or just drool :p
 
Why is this aimed at the guys? People will notice and admire that which they find attractive. It doesn't equate to an imperfection in thier partners.
 
Well, for one thing everyone checks out people they find attractive regardless of their own relationship status.
As far as the grass is greener thing men are more prone to it. Women tend to settle more easily than men. The reason men idolise other women is because their partners usually fail to play the goddess role for them. They get lazy with regards seducing their man when they feel comfortable.
 
Nothing wrong with looking at the menu as long as you don't order.
 
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