Good bye my lover

Randux

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Anon123 said:
All I wanted was one more week, one more
week to cuddle with you, to love you, to
show you how much you truly mean to me.
I will never get to have that one more
week, you have left for good and the pain
is unbearable knowing I will never get to
have one more day with you let alone one
more week. I know you will be better off in
Cape Town. You will make new friends,
probably fall in love with someone great
(don’t settle for less) because you deserve
someone who treats you like a princess. I
will never ever forget you and the pain of
losing you will probably ease over time but
never go away, you were my first love and
you will always have my heart. I honestly
believed we would be together forever from
the first moment I saw you in your sexy
school outfit but fate obviously had other
plans for us.
I promise that this is the last time I write
something like this to you because I know
I am not making it any easier but just felt
things ended so suddenly that I never had
the time to tell you how I felt about you
and letting you know that you changed my
life for the better.
I hope that you will forget the bad times
we had because there were so many good
times to remember so so so many good
times, and some really crazy times. No one
quite understood our relationship but it
was the most loving and breath-taking
relationship because you understood me
better than anyone in this world and I will
always miss what we have. I hope that one
day in the future we can be friends, but in
order for me to at least try get over you I
have to break off all contact otherwise I
will never get over you and just end up
hurting myself so please don’t ever think I
stopped calling or sending messages
because I don’t care it is only because
otherwise I will never be able to move on
with my life.I literally cried my eyes out
writing this, because this is the hardest
thing I have had to ever over-come. I wish
things had ended differently, I wish we
could just have spent one more week
together. I will sincerely miss everything
about you, your smell, your smile, the way
you used to love cuddling - 24/7 if you
could, your laugh, how you look in the
morning without makeup and of course
your every inch of your gorgeous body. I
hope that you will remember me not as
the guy who broke your heart but the guy
who loved you more than anything in this
world.
I came across a quote I want to share with
you “Don't cry because it's over. Smile
because it happened.” and I hope that
you will one day look back on us and smile
because I always tried to give you all of my
love I possibly could. I know I was difficult
a lot of the time but I always loved you
sincerely and I hope that you see that one
day that my love for your was genuine.
Good bye princess. I love you. I hope you
have a prosperous life and that all your
hopes and dreams are fulfilled and that
you find peace someday.
I will never forget you…xoxoxo
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Letter I wrote to the love of my life, she
has moved to Cape town to study next
year, my life is up here in Pretoria but this
break-up has been the hardest thing I
have ever gone through.
Somebody make me feel better please.
Please excuse punctuation and spelling
errors, didnt write this in the right state of
mind.
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Boy you weak
 
Mike Hoxbig

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Good lord, I was about to ask why nobody quoted the OP because I was confused. Now I wish I hadn't seen it...
 
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Shame OP, sometimes life kicks you in the groin. Not really anything you can do about it except move on.

Good luck, you'll get over her eventually, that's guaranteed.
 
googoodoll

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KalMaverick said:
Shame OP, sometimes life kicks you in the groin. Not really anything you can do about it except move on.

Good luck, you'll get over her eventually, that's guaranteed.
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At least someone around here has a softie side.....
You deserve a good gf ;)
 
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One of the saddest things that can happen to someone is losing a lover. It's very easy for an outsider to say man up and move on.

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azbob

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I know this Doctor who can bring back lost lovers. PM me.
 
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[video=youtube;Zsy99jbK-Q8]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zsy99jbK-Q8[/video]
 
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Anon123 said:
I will sincerely miss everything
about you, your smell, your smile, the way
you used to love cuddling - 24/7 if you
could, your laugh, how you look in the
morning without makeup and of course
your every inch of your gorgeous body.
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That is the kind of sheet that apparently causes mweb subscriptions to get cancelled and you thought that your relationship could survive 24/7.

You should write her another letter to tell her how you really feel, don't forget to post it here.
 
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Nick333

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theone said:
That is the kind of sheet that apparently causes mweb subscriptions to get cancelled and you thought that your relationship could survive 24/7.

You should write her another letter to tell her how you really feel, don't forget to post it here.
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Yep. Dude is needy and clingy. Relationships where one partner is needy and clingy never work and the needy, clingy person is always left wondering why.

Wanting to be around someone 24/7 isn't romantic, it's creepy. We all know what it feels like to be madly in love and how much it hurts to lose someone we love. When we feel loved we tend to relax all the mechanisms we use to sooth our own insecurities. We feel great because someone else seems to think we're great. When they're gone suddenly we have to deal with those insecurities again and now it's worse because the rejection has confirmed all those insecurities.

Anon123, it sucks to be you boet but, you're not going through anything billions of people haven't gone through. You need to do stuff that would usually make you happy before you met this girl.
 
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Nick333 said:
When we feel loved we tend to relax all the mechanisms we use to sooth our own insecurities. We feel great because someone else seems to think we're great. When they're gone suddenly we have to deal with those insecurities again and now it's worse because the rejection has confirmed all those insecurities.
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