Guy Seeks honest relationship advice...

[cwisking]

Hi peeps.

i am hoping that some gals can give me some advice about this one, i care a bout a gal so much, we were dating once, and i hurt her, badly, and now she has lost confidence, and the "fairy tale" outlook on relationships. i kno she still cares about me, what can i do? how can i prove to her that i am serious about what i say and that i want to make her the happiest little peach...

over and out...

 

[Geriatrix]

Need more info.

 

[Dolby]

Time? After a while she'll see if you truly have changed

 

[Mrs Snakepit]

Well it all depended on what you did? you have to earn her trust and sometimes that does take a long time to do.

The best would be not to make her feel trapped and to just show her that you have changed and are commited to trying to win her over.

send her flowers or do sweet things but dont go over kill im sure she will reconcider and come back to you.

Give it time and dont push the issue.

Good luck hope this helps!

 

[chiskop]

 

[Kilgore_Trout_Redux]

Don't cheat on the next one.

 

[RazedInBlack]

happiest little peach...

Hmm! When you bring fruit into a relationship . . . the question is, will she make you the happiest little banana?

 

[cerebus]

Sometimes you just blow it and there really is nothing you can do. That's how you learn that your actions have real world repercussions. But if you want her to take you back you need to prove to her that you have changed.....that's by a change in your living. She must start to see that you are a different person. There isn't any other way and definitely no magic button.

 

[killadoob]

Well what did you do to hurt her confidence?

 

[Dolby]

Sometimes you just blow it and there really is nothing you can do. That's how you learn that your actions have real world repercussions.

+1

 

[JK8]

How did you "hurt" her?

 

[cwisking]

Hmm! When you bring fruit into a relationship . . . the question is, will she make you the happiest little banana?

haha, there always has to be one....


um i was planing to immigrate, which made her wonder why i wanted to leave, but decide to stay here for her.

 

[Mrs Snakepit]

Thats funny

 

[killadoob]

Hmmm so you chose to stay here for her and she chose not to be with you?

 

[cwisking]

well i suppose its a kinda trust issue, cos she is prob thinking why would i want to leave, leave her, in the first place.

 

[killadoob]

Well why did you want to leave?

 

[cwisking]

Got a job offer in aus. but decided its not what i want, cos what i want was right here

 

[killadoob]

Yea so then tell her that, i mean it is not like you cheated on her with her best friend or something.

 

[Chris_H]

or like you wacked her in the face... or did you?

 

[cwisking]

or like you wacked her in the face... or did you?

hey i did tell her twice.... no infact i wacked her sista in the face...

haha no i just need something to go my way and i kno everything will be cool.