Help i couldnt do it.....(18+)

killadoob said:
you may not consciously be nervous but sub consciously you are?

let me ask you a personal question

if you watch a porno do you get a hard one? do you have a sloppy jo even when beating it to porno?

if you do viagra is your friend
if you can perform to a porno (meaing hard on and nice orgasm while enjoying it ) then your not confident and sub consciously your nervous

or you may be gay bwhaha :)
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1St off all theres to many girls for me to beat it to porno:D
I do get a hard on just by thinking about it i also think i may not consciously be nervous but sub consciously i am..
IM NOT GAY:p
Im to young for Viagra.
Now how do i solve my sub conscious nervousness problem ?
 
I generally blame the girl , try putting a paper bag over her head :)
 
Project X said:
Im to young for Viagra.
Now how do i solve my sub conscious nervousness problem ?
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Practise!!! Screw more girls.

Or ... try Cialis. Unlike Viagra, Cialis only kicks in when you are stimulated. So you don't walk around the whole time with a stiff one. Also, it supposedly lasts for about two days.
 
Picard said:
Practise!!! Screw more girls.

Or ... try Cialis. Unlike Viagra, Cialis only kicks in when you are stimulated. So you don't walk around the whole time with a stiff one. Also, it supposedly lasts for about two days.
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Your wife must be so happy now.

Project X - I reckon you need to seek the help of a professional regarding this issue. Sounds like a mental issue to me without sounding too derogitory. I doubt any of us are qualified enough to know how to answer it correctly and responsibly. Skip the chems as far as you can - something else must be sub-consciously going on. Call it nerves, performance anxiety, paranoia etc. But its nothing we could probably help you with. Try a pshychologist...
 
You say you are young, don't you have a masculine figure, like your dad or someone who you look up to, to discuss issues like this? Posting this on the internet may feel "anonymous", but it's not going to help much, honestly.
 
teraside said:
You say you are young, don't you have a masculine figure, like your dad or someone who you look up to, to discuss issues like this? Posting this on the internet may feel "anonymous", but it's not going to help much, honestly.
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agree ... its very "gay" of him to post stuff like this on an open forum ... :D
 
teraside said:
You say you are young, don't you have a masculine figure, like your dad or someone who you look up to, to discuss issues like this? Posting this on the internet may feel "anonymous", but it's not going to help much, honestly.
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Just wanted to see what other people have to say,but iv found my answer thanks guys...
 
You're not to young for Viagra, I once did some work at a Men's Clinic.. almost all the guys that came in were in the 20's... I asked the doc about it, he said it had something to do with work stress, life not as easy as it used to be, etc.

Anyway... You get various medication these days, not just Viagram Cialis gives you 72 hours, as apposed to Viagra's 4 hours of happy time. You also get injections, but I wouldn't go there... has to be refrigrated, etc.

P.S. The pills used to range from R75 - R110/pill... so its not cheap... but go see a doc, www.menshealth.co.za will sort you out.

It's probably performance anxiety as someone suggested.... I've been in a similiar situation... except I was REALLY REALLY pissed, by the time it came to do the deed, I looked down, and it was deader than dead... embarrassing as hell...considering it was the first time.... but woke up later to complete the deed...
 
What if stiffness isn't a problem once you start but goes limp after a while before you have finished? Is this a psychological problem or a medical problem?
 
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Picard said:
What if stiffness isn't a problem once you start but goes limp after a while before you have finished? Is this a psychological problem or a medical problem?
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Could be either... if you start worring about it going down during... it generally goes down... weird how the mind works.
 
Just_Ice said:
Black label?? Just go for the tequila!!! :D
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i really prefer vodka...its very good:Dpromise it will work.i had a problem like that about 2years ago.
i think its anxiety.
I chased this women for 14 years,and when we finally had the chance to do the deed i went loco....limpedmine:(
i did not know what to do and she understood that i was not ready for this.
Hope this helps:)
 
its all in your mind man

when i first started dating my fiancee i had a problem where i would be hard and then suddenly go limp because i was nervous

now i just say ok what position, she says you tell me

also if you screwing someone who is a bit shy about their ass and what not what it does not help

also the words i most hated hearing was i feel like a slut when u screw me from behind

i have managed to change her mind on the whole slut thing thankfully because doing it on the dark on top was getting rather boring

now its toilets couches any position :), her confidence gives me alot of confidence now :)
 
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