Help Needed

[Losticus]

Okay so there is this girl I like (sounds like a broken record), but anyway we both seem really into each other but now she is going out with some guy tomorrow on a date...
This is not cool IMO, but the problem comes from my side in that I haven't told her how I feel, I really want to tell her I like her but I cant think of the words to say so. Help Please?

I suppose it is only a first date and maybe the guy is a dumbass, what can I say to ensure that this girl becomes my girl.

 

[Ænema]

Tell her how you feel before she goes on that date! Plant the seed of doubt in her mind and she will be forced to compare you to the guy she has the date with. Hopefully you are a better prospect than the other chap and she will let you take her out in the near future.

Or, find out where the date will take place and sabotage the date and ensure a series of comical and uncomfortable situations arise for the suitor in question ala lame collage comedy style...broeklax in the drink is a popular option....

 

[Debbie]

Okay so there is this girl I like (sounds like a broken record), but anyway we both seem really into each other but now she is going out with some guy tomorrow on a date...
This is not cool IMO, but the problem comes from my side in that I haven't told her how I feel, I really want to tell her I like her but I cant think of the words to say so. Help Please?

I suppose it is only a first date and maybe the guy is a dumbass, what can I say to ensure that this girl becomes my girl.

I like you and I'm jealous that you're going on a date with another guy. Would you like to go out with me the night after?

 

[Pitbull]

Okay so there is this girl I like (sounds like a broken record), but anyway we both seem really into each other but now she is going out with some guy tomorrow on a date...
This is not cool IMO, but the problem comes from my side in that I haven't told her how I feel, I really want to tell her I like her but I cant think of the words to say so. Help Please?

I suppose it is only a first date and maybe the guy is a dumbass, what can I say to ensure that this girl becomes my girl.

Invite her over tonight to your place and show her how much you care about her, actions talk louder than words

 

[blunomore]

Let her go out with this other guy. It is good for women to play the field a bit. Shouldn't grab the first guy that passes.

 

[eaglebeaver]

Spend more time with her. Something may come up in conversation ie might be easier to say how you feel .

 

[sabagamma]

Dude, tell her how you feel and soon. And take her out somewhere nice and classy - not stuffy. If you are going to spend your time hoping the guy is a dumbass you are probably going to come off second best.

 

[cyberarmy]

Mr. Don Juan, who's the lucky lady this time around?

 

[hyperian]

if you tell her and she doesnt do anything about it, just ignore her. It works.

 

[Losticus]

So it seems as though I have my work cut out for me! But I guess there is no harm in telling her how I feel.
But on a better note, I asked her out for Saturday and she said yes! Looking up? I hope so

 

[Losticus]

@ Debbie, an answer to your question, that sounds grand. Lets go out.

 

[Fuma]

if you tell her and she doesnt do anything about it, just ignore her. It works.

Always

 

[TheHiveMind]

I like you and I'm jealous that you're going on a date with another guy. Would you like to go out with me the night after?

Tease her about the date. Ask her about her "bf", ask her if she "got lucky".. stuff like that. Keep it light, and flirty, and don't show her all your cards like every woman in this thread suggests. That probably won't work =P She "knows" how you feel if you asked her out, but she can't be sure. That keeps her guessing, keeps her mind racing about it. Thats what you want. As soon as you show all your cards its game over. Woman like mystery, and a little challenge. They might not admit it, but they love it.