I am so lonely

[seventhson]

girls dont really want to know me it really sucks

 

[bex.cpt]

And exactly when did MYNB become AGONY AUNT ? WTF

OMG someone turn the lights off on this thread PLEASE

just kidding mate

take it from a wanna playa women are attracted to confidence and if you doj have that they walk right past. It has been my expierence that the female species is a complicated bunch.

Now buck up go to a pub have a few (not more than 2) Mexican courage and go to the hottest girl in the club and ask her to dance. The worst that can happen she says NO. Then you ask the 2nd hottest. Etc

they only want what they cannot have. Messed up I know

 

[Nicci]

yeah, now thats REAL good advice... you clearly have no clue about women!

 

[feo]

yeah, now thats REAL good advice... you clearly have no clue about women!

Give us a clue then because I also have no idea how your species work..

 

[bex.cpt]

@Nicca NOBODY KNOWS WOMEN NOT EVEN THEMSELVES.

 

[seventhson]

I have had one girlfriend and that was a disaster she really made me feel **** about myself. I am 20 and that was my only gfriend I have had.

 

[Necuno]

woman aren't generally interested in a 'man wimp', i mean would you if you were a woman go with a man that has no backbone or seems like a lost case ? My advice would be to manup and be a 'well mannered conan' rather than ogee i'm a failure...

 

[bex.cpt]

Okay jokes aside here is what I have figured out about women.

1. A women wants exactly what men want (NO NOT SEX YOU PERV)

someone to talk to and someone who can listen.

2. Cater to a owmen needs they are very simple.

Again someone to listen to and someone to talk too. If you cam string more than 2 words togther WITHOUT LOOKING DOWN AT HER BOOBS you are half way there. SERIOUS

3. Make them laugh, a long time myth is that if you can make them laugh you are 50% in there pants this is partcialy true there is a ammendment to that myth. You are 50% in there pants ONLY IF THAT IS NOT YOUR INITIAL PLAN.

4. So dude what you are going thru we all have gone tru. So take it slow talk to women and not AT them. Listen to what they have to say and do not pretend to listen they can sense that and finally.

This is the MOST IMPORTANT PART.

SHOWER USE DEODARANT SHAVE USE AFTER SHAVE. KEEP YPUR HAIR NEAT NOBODY WANNA BE SEEN WITH A SMELLY UNKEPT SLOB.


goodluck.

 

[The_Right_Honourable_Brit]

Whoever said "Men are from Venus, women are from Mars" is totally correct in my opinion .

 

[Basjohn]

Well as longtime self-toucher extraordinaire and exceptionally talented virgin (talented at remaning a virgin that is) I can assure you that you are not alone.

I've had roughly 3 girlfriends and all of them from 19+, additionally all of them have initially been "friends" which is how I avoid the dastardly "They don't like me so I don't have confidence but they don't like me because I don't have confidence" hole so many people ramble about.

I can't really give you any advice though...in fact my post was likely completely unhelpful and served as little more than a minor reassurance that there are quite a few out there in your same boat.

 

[Basjohn]

woman aren't generally interested in a 'man wimp', i mean would you if you were a woman go with a man that has no backbone or seems like a lost case ? My advice would be to manup and be a 'well mannered conan' rather than ogee i'm a failure...

This is not always the case and the degradation of the male sect comes almost precisely from sacrificing deep emotion and sensitivity for ROUGHTOUGHGROWL. I can't tell you how many guys I know that put up fronts like this just to get some action....but then come complaining to me weekly about how unhappy their fake lives are.

Aaaaaaaaaaand I've just proven why I'll die alone, but anyway had to be said to prevent a little cry session on my part.

 

[Rosaudio]

Buy an expensive BMW or Merc. The women will then be lining up

 

[Nicci]

well, I can only speak for myself, but I will never go for these "macho wannabe player" types that lurkes in the clubs. Been there done that, and didnt bother to get the t-shirt. Met a few of them actually, and if they dont have alcohol in to give them guts to talk then they sit there and twiddle their thumbs. All just a big show to try and boost their ego. I like a guy who is down to earth, who can talk, and who is not ashamed to show his sensitive side.

 

[The_Pumpkin_King]

my eyes burn

 

[feo]

well, I can only speak for myself, but I will never go for these "macho wannabe player" types that lurkes in the clubs. Been there done that, and didnt bother to get the t-shirt. Met a few of them actually, and if they dont have alcohol in to give them guts to talk then they sit there and twiddle their thumbs. All just a big show to try and boost their ego. I like a guy who is down to earth, who can talk, and who is not ashamed to show his sensitive side.

You're the exception then because the only chick whose ever told me that I'm a great guy and that any girl would be lucky to have me was my date to my companies year end party...the rest of them all go for the loud macho type and don't appreciate guys that are sensitive and intelligent. It's almost as if being intelligent repels them...

 

[bex.cpt]

@NICCIA CHECK MY LATEST POST.

 

[Nicci]

You're the exception then because the only chick whose ever told me that I'm a great guy and that any girl would be lucky to have me was my date to my companies year end party...the rest of them all go for the loud macho type and don't appreciate guys that are sensitive and intelligent. It's almost as if being intelligent repels them...

On the contrary, I think intelligent men are very attractive! I don't care for the club bunnies with fskall between the ears. I like a sensitive guy who shows his feelings.

 

[Basjohn]

On the contrary, I think intelligent men are very attractive! I don't care for the club bunnies with fskall between the ears. I like a sensitive guy who shows his feelings.

I believe I hear echoing requests to mass produce you already.

 

[Nicci]

@NICCIA CHECK MY LATEST POST.

Lol, I saw. That is true, I for one like a guy who listens and who I can communicate with, and when I say communicate I dont mean talk about the next rave party, or how drunk he got last night.

 

[RazedInBlack]

Buy a dog!