I need help

[Ninja'd]

/watches in awe as the party gets busy

 

[faniebraai]

she needs support from friends and family

but isn't that what everyone need?

 

[GreGorGy]

she needs support from friends and family

Support != Help - but I do understand what you meant. So that's all good.

TBH, I don't even know if support is the right word - she needs to be. Without interference, without criticism. Like I said, it is a hair colour.

 

[GreGorGy]

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Mmmmm - does that stuff work? I have a speedo pic that says no.

 

[longboy]

Ag maan, just call call the dominee and the church group for help.

 

[bchip]

but isn't that what everyone need?

Yes!!

Doesnt matter if your issues are relationships, career or financial, people need guidance.
The road is lot longer and tougher going through things on your own.

We all are going to follow the path we choose, but with the right support from friends and family
it could make a huge difference in ones life and the outcome of it.

 

[Grant]

Mmmmm - does that stuff work? I have a speedo pic that says no.

i'll take it off your hands - problem solved

**ppst also give robert a copy - on second thoughts no, dont. robert may just catch pink eye if he looks

 

[Ho3n3r]

Yes!!

Doesnt matter if your issues are relationships, career or financial, people need guidance.
The road is lot longer and tougher going through things on your own.

We all are going to follow the path we choose, but with the right support from friends and family
it could make a huge difference in ones life and the outcome of it.

My family is more of a hindrance than a help, for example. So no, I'd rather go it on my own.

Everybody's position is different.

 

[GreGorGy]

i'll take it off your hands - problem solved

**ppst also give robert a copy

I already gave it to a LaraC welcome thread - many, many complaints.

 

[mak2000]

I myself don't like guy people, it is the way I was brought up. I still believe being gay is a sin and wrong in God's eyes. Now a family member of my family (female) decided she is gay. How must I accept it, understand it, etc. I believe that you cannot spank it out of them

There is not much you can do, so accept it. Or if you feel strongly against this because of your religious beliefs then you will have to ignore them. But understand that there is not much you can do. Please do not try to force your views on others.

Im sure you will find some religious text about forgiveness. In the meantime, you can try and educate yourself on why this is acceptable in many a people's view and it might help you understand.

Good Luck.

 

[Baxteen]

There is not much you can do, so accept it. Or if you feel strongly against this because of your religious beliefs then you will have to ignore them. But understand that there is not much you can do. Please do not try to force your views on others.

Im sure you will find some religious text about forgiveness. In the meantime, you can try and educate yourself on why this is acceptable in many a people's view and it might help you understand.

Good Luck.

agreed 100%

some people like Marmite, some people don't. if you like marmite, and your family member likes boverol, are you going to start a fight about it? try and convince them? if the answer to that is yes then re evaluate your own life, because that is way too much of a waste of time.

*side note I understand how hypocritical I am in saying this (see apple vs android)

what you believe your imaginary friend thinks is wright or wrong has nothing to do with what is actually right or wrong.

 

[bchip]

My family is more of a hindrance than a help, for example. So no, I'd rather go it on my own.

Everybody's position is different.

I agree with you everyones position is different, some people find help through family, some not at ALL.
Doesnt mean the other side is better - Going it alone is tough, there are times when everyone needs help.
Trick is surrounding yourself with positive people, doesnt matter if they blood related or not.

Thats just my experience...what Ive also realized is that these kinds of people are VERY rare and worth holding on to.

 

[nightjar]

Now a family member of my family (female) decided she is gay.

What a waste of two females!

You and the family need to intervene and pray for her,

People should pray for themselves.
They need the prayer more than she does.

Interesting debate. In which testament does it specify the being gay is wrong?

The user manual (which is full of errors anyway) only specifies males and animals. Ladies who fancy a spot of rug munching are fine.

 

[.QQ.]

if the answer to that is yes

Unfortunately the answer would be yes for a lot of people, that's the problem with dogma.

 

[kianm]

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So wet

:twisted:

 

[3WA]

The user manual (which is full of errors anyway) only specifies males and animals. Ladies who fancy a spot of rug munching are fine.

That's worth converting over.

 

[Keeper]

I myself don't like people who eat pork, it is the way I was brought up. I still believe eating pork is a sin and wrong in God's eyes. Now a family member of my family (female) decided she likes pork. How must I accept it, understand it, etc. I believe that you cannot spank it out of them

Their eating habits have nothing to do with you, much like their sex/love lives.
Why not just let other people do with their own lives as they please? You do know that you are your own person, don't you?

Whether you accept or understand her lifestyle is really not her problem - it's yours.

 

[Mike Hoxbig]

I believe that you cannot spank it out of them

Send her over to my place, I'll try my best...

 

[Ho3n3r]

Send her over to my place, I'll try my best...

 

[Stevi]

If it's yellow let it mellow