Hi OP
Yeah congrats. I'm in the exact same boat as you. First born turned 7 this year, wife is 7weeks pregnant. We were thinking of the same thing the baby's gender, the wife is up for it but I would like to know. Still deciding on that one.
yea, well u can always have the gender reveal a couple days after the doc finds out so its not like surprise at 9 months with all those terrible yellow clothing because you dont know the gender lol!! I want people to buy us as much sheet as possible before baby born