Inappropriate relationship?

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Would it be inappropriate if your Partner/Spouse discussed things of a relatively sexual nature(ranging from medical health to intimate preferences) with a good friend of theirs of the opposite sex? :confused:
or Discussed your sex life with the said friend

Would you be pissed? If so How much on a scale of 1-10?
If not why not?

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Very pissed.

She can tell all she wants to her female friends (as to how awesome I am) but to male friends she better STFU.
 
Inappropriate... How so?
Its a personal take for each of us I suppose.

I don't really see a problem with it - unless an oke wants to show the SO how it should be done LoL :D

I've got a female friend that at times discusses sexual frustrations that she has with her SO.
But we're good friends like that.
 
marine1 said:
Very pissed. I will say it again and again, men and women can NOT just be "friends". 1 x party will always want something more.
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Exactly.
Its very inappropriate. Depending on the kind of relationship you have, she shouldn't even discuss it with female friends IMO.
 
I'd be pissed - but it depends exactly who she is telling.

A close friend of 30 years ... her close gay friend ... the guy at work that has known her for 6 months and wants to sleep with her ?
 
nukefission said:
Would it be inappropriate if your Partner/Spouse discussed things of a relatively sexual nature(ranging from medical health to intimate preferences) with a good friend of theirs of the opposite sex? :confused:
or Discussed your sex life with the said friend

Would you be pissed? If so How much on a scale of 1-10?
If not why not?

:confused:
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Very inappropriate! If its your partner you're in trouble :(
 
Ms_S said:
Exactly.
Its very inappropriate. Depending on the kind of relationship you have, she shouldn't even discuss it with female friends IMO.
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Couldn't agree more. I have a female friend of 16 years, and she knows nothing of my sexual relationship with my wife. Nor do my "Homeboys" I keep that, and any personal information between the two of us. I feel it is betrayal in a sense. You have that SO for that exact reason.
 
It would piss me off at a scale of 100 out of 10.

Your partner should speak to you about sex life problems.
 
Inn3rs3lf said:
Couldn't agree more. I have a female friend of 16 years, and she knows nothing of my sexual relationship with my wife. Nor do my "Homeboys" I keep that, and any personal information between the two of us. I feel it is betrayal in a sense. You have that SO for that exact reason.
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+1
 
marine1 said:
Very pissed. I will say it again and again, men and women can NOT just be "friends". 1 x party will always want something more.
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I am not sure why this is a huge issue - Couples I know, if there is a women in that partnership that I fancy I simply keep it to myself. Can't help who you are attracted to, but it's very simple to respect someone's relationship.

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That said, the issue in the OP is a bit uncomfortable, to be sure.
 
I don't think it's smart or right for her to discuss your intimate sex life with anyone(even female friends) other than a professional. One thing i have learnt over the years is people gossip. Whatever you tell them will spread around town, and if it doesn't happen while friends, it'll happen in a few years when the friendship breaks down, especially if the information is "interesting" enough. People are bored, and they talk to fill the time, which means you basically have to ask yourself do you want people talking about your sex life, because if you give them information they will. And remember it's a game of broken telephone. What starts out as something mild eventually turn into something quite different as it spreads around town.
 
I don't think a friendship with someone of the opposite sex is appropriate never mind discussing intimate details. I would leave her for that without a moment's thought.
 
10 - All woman speak to their friends about their sex life. You tell your friends as well I'm sure.

BUT NOT TO THE OPPOSITE SEX!! THAT'S JUST WRONG
 
Pissed- chicks dont understand that most guy dont just want to be friends. I'd say 99% of the time they're wangling their way in there and one of the easiest ways is to be the sympathetic ear. The chick opens up about her problem husband, you're understanding, you're this really nice guy......
 
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