Inet dating....

Carol35

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Ok..I know the wrong thing to ask on a male dominated forum, but my friend went on an internet date with an oke this week...while seated at the dinner table and ordering her drink( not even starter) , the douches wife rocks up and lays into her...as in like they have a physical fight....my friend totally unknew that he was married....the wife screaming at her in the Dros that she is a host of unmentionables,also that he has obviously done this before....among other things...lol...I have his card, he is a CEO of a huge company, and just for the fun of it, I've sent him quite a few dirty messages tonight telling him to say sorry to my friend or else....but nothing...how arrogant.

Should I leave it or play it to its full? My friend was bloody hurt, her reputation in ruins at the resturant in question and I guess, any internet daters worst nightmare come true.
 

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Lol..don't be mean... This has nothing to do with the Beeld. My friend was conned and was so shocked when she was klappped, that she barely had time to fight back...she just went for a drink. The guys wife rocks up and lays into her....no man.
 

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Facebook stalk him, find his wife and then facebook message her too while you at it (maybe link her to his dating profile???). :D tadaaaaah

Go get revenge for all those who never could!
 

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Lol..don't be mean... This has nothing to do with the Beeld. My friend was conned and was so shocked when she was klappped, that she barely had time to fight back...she just went for a drink. The guys wife rocks up and lays into her....no man.

And exactly why it needs to be put out there... your friend suffered a grave injustice. This arrogant prick clearly does not give a damn- so let's see how having it plastered in the newspapers has him feel...
 

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Let it go and learn a lesson.

First thing to look for is his wedding ring finger, should show a band was there. Leave immediately. I have always wondered why people beat up the supposed cheaters but their bf or husband gets off lightly.

Someone should have floored that bitch for sure.
 

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I just sent him a message saying still no apology forthcoming, check mybroadband. Although his co is not IT related,he is going to be ever so sorry. And I really do feel for his wife.
 

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Let it go and learn a lesson.

First thing to look for is his wedding ring finger, should show a band was there. Leave immediately. I have always wondered why people beat up the supposed cheaters but their bf or husband gets off lightly.

Someone should have floored that bitch for sure.
Neither me nor the husband wears a band, really, that is not a way to confirm marriage. I have never worn a ring for the 10 years we been married.
 

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Your friend should have laid a case against this guy's wife for physical assault. How was she supposed to know he is married, it's a internet date for goodness sake. Anyway, how did the wife know where to find him?
 

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A couple of bruises and hurt ego is better than the hurt that could have transpired further down the road if she had fallen for him.

Not a very nice thing for this d1ck to do and I hope he gets it in some way or another.
 

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Your friend should have laid a case against this guy's wife for physical assault. How was she supposed to know he is married, it's a internet date for goodness sake. Anyway, how did the wife know where to find him?
We discussed this the entire night...I can only imagine that the wife followed. But besides my friend's bruised ego and leg, this oke make out like he was single and ready to jingle. We not talking teenagers but grown up adults, children and families involved. How did he think he could get away with it? It's taking every ounce of my being not to name an shame him here. Someone beg me too? :D
 

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We discussed this the entire night...I can only imagine that the wife followed. But besides my friend's bruised ego and leg, this oke make out like he was single and ready to jingle. We not talking teenagers but grown up adults, children and families involved. How did he think he could get away with it? It's taking every ounce of my being not to name an shame him here. Someone beg me too? :D

Pleeeeeeeease name and shame him??
 

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Carol, he does not deserve the right to anonymity if he has caused such deceit and humiliation.

I recon other woman need to be protected from this guy.
 

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We discussed this the entire night...I can only imagine that the wife followed. But besides my friend's bruised ego and leg, this oke make out like he was single and ready to jingle. We not talking teenagers but grown up adults, children and families involved. How did he think he could get away with it? It's taking every ounce of my being not to name an shame him here. Someone beg me too? :D

For all your friend knows, it could have been a setup. Some people are kinky that way.

Why not name and shame on FB. Have seen that happen plenty on times on there, including my sister-in-law's ex husband. It wasn't pretty.
 

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God damn woman, spill the beans ! He's going to smooth talk another innocent innocent person
 

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He is apparently happily married but took my friend on a date and told her that he is divorced from his wife and the wife follows his every move( i dont blame her)and beats up the women he dates. I gave him every opportunity to apologise but he declined.
 
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Carol35

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Going to the Dros for a date was the first mistake...
She is new to Internet dating ok. :D I have already saved her from sending R3000 to some nigi that sent her a parcel promising her everlasting love. The vunerable are spotted a mile away.
 
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