Introvert / Extrovert relationships

Dolby

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Since the extravert needs more to be stimulated, wouldn't he get bored in that lifestyle? Always looking for something better and more exciting to happen?

In theory, that's the way I see it working.
 

koeks

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No i flippin hate it man, my fiancee is always wanting to go and do shyte.

We had a huge fight in December and i basically told her that i am sick of being dragged to every event we get invited to and if this relationship is going to work when i say i am not going leave it at that and go by yourself.

hahaha :D
killadoob, that's exactly what i told my GF, just because we are in a relationship, we don't have to do everything together...:D:);):D
 

superB

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I'm an introvert at heart but my ex has always seen me as an extrovert. Yes, I've learnt to put on that mask in social situations but the majority of the time, if given the choice, I would rather sit home and read a book / watch a dvd / play soduko.

It is zactually one of the reasons we split which to me is really sad. He didnt believe me when I said I wanted to stay home - he was convinced that I wanted to go out and 'play' and that I would get bored and eventually leave him. If only he hadnt been so afraid... maybe he would have let me show him.

*shrug*

Some men are more complicated than women.
 

blunomore

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I'm an introvert at heart but my ex has always seen me as an extrovert. Yes, I've learnt to put on that mask in social situations but the majority of the time, if given the choice, I would rather sit home and read a book / watch a dvd / play soduko.

It is zactually one of the reasons we split which to me is really sad. He didnt believe me when I said I wanted to stay home - he was convinced that I wanted to go out and 'play' and that I would get bored and eventually leave him. If only he hadnt been so afraid... maybe he would have let me show him.

*shrug*

Some men are more complicated than women.


You still not seeing him as much as you want to, SuperB?
 

NicoleA

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I'm an extrovert, my boyfriend's an introvert, been together 4 years. It's kind of strange that I go out so much and he stays in but when we are spend time together, I agree opposites attract :)
 
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