Lady in the office

[GreGorGy]

Why do you people entertain the be.plato troll every single time?

Bingo! I was trying to figure it out...

 

[MickeyD]

You are fscking nuts!

ORLY? :wtf:

 

[nightjar]

There is a nice lady in the office where I work and I think she likes me, however we are both married. Any thoughts or ideas?

Lots of impassioned responses in last eleven pages!.

Marriage was an invention of patriarchal religions and was intended to make women the property and playthings of their male owners.
It was always ok for males to have multiple wives and concubines but if a woman wanted more than one she was stoned to death and even rape victims met the same fate - unless they were forced to marry their attackers.

Sex is a biological function just as important as eating or breathing and nature made it an enjoyable pastime.

People have been brainwashed during the last approximately 35 centuries into believing that any female sexual pleasure is dirty and it is only in recent years that these attitudes are changing.

I have always had a (silly?) rule about not going after the wives and girlfriends of my friends, colleagues, clients and associates and, as a result, did lose out a few times. I have also only ever had time for one relationship at a time and felt no need for any more.

Many men and women these days are committed to their marriage partner but still indulge in recreational sex outside their main partnership and I have no problem with that as long as there is honesty between all concerned..

 

[Good.Fellow]

lol epic thread,is this guy just trolling or being serious?

I actually serious, I am trying to prove that you can make friends with a women if you are married or not. Then move past the sexual tension part and then have a decent platonic relationship.

That is what I want.

Edit: This thread is kinda like my journal of discovery....

 

[Slootvreter]

 

[InternetSwag]

Be faithful to your wife or GTFO.

this

 

[Good.Fellow]

this

So you believe that it is impossible to have a platonic relationship with a women if you are married.

How sad, patriarchal and old school.

 

[systemofpurplelimpminion]

I for one have a rule, in regards to this. It might come accross conceited and event stupid, but this comes from personal experience so bear with me. Women and men can not simply just be friends, there is always some other interest or agend behind it and in most cases it is one of the parties that has a crush on the other.

I think you need to ask yourself the following questions, and maybe post them here to clarify to us all:

Are you happily married, as if you were, you would not care if she is interested in you
Why did you get married in the first place. I recently read some alarming stats, where it stated that 73% of people settled when they got married, to make matters worst, most of these where for the the re-bound

 

[Good.Fellow]

I for one have a rule, in regards to this. It might come accross conceited and event stupid, but this comes from personal experience so bear with me. Women and men can not simply just be friends, there is always some other interest or agend behind it and in most cases it is one of the parties that has a crush on the other.

I think you need to ask yourself the following questions, and maybe post them here to clarify to us all:

Are you happily married, as if you were, you would not care if she is interested in you
Why did you get married in the first place. I recently read some alarming stats, where it stated that 73% of people settled when they got married, to make matters worst, most of these where for the the re-bound

I am happily married. I would not care.

 

[systemofpurplelimpminion]

I am happily married. I would not care.

Why bother with this post then?

 

[Good.Fellow]

Why bother with this post then?

You said "you would not care if she is interested in you"

She is not interested in me in that way. only as a friend.

 

[AfricanTech]

You said "you would not care if she is interested in you"

She is not interested in me in that way. only as a friend.

Biology will do you in every time fella, biology will do you in.

 

[Slootvreter]

I for one have a rule, in regards to this. It might come accross conceited and event stupid, but this comes from personal experience so bear with me. Women and men can not simply just be friends, there is always some other interest or agend behind it and in most cases it is one of the parties that has a crush on the other.

I think you need to ask yourself the following questions, and maybe post them here to clarify to us all:

Are you happily married, as if you were, you would not care if she is interested in you
Why did you get married in the first place. I recently read some alarming stats, where it stated that 73% of people settled when they got married, to make matters worst, most of these where for the the re-bound

You have fed the troll

 

[Good.Fellow]

You have fed the troll

Oh just engage appropriately, not everyone is a bad troll you know.