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I think the GWL/Power Current Monitoring Relay, PRI-32, AC 1A - 20A, CE, should work.
If you have the micro wired into your db through your 2 pole 10A breaker (as you should).
Only problem would be you are limited to 1A or 220W, they suggest looping the wire a few times, but my grid supply cable is already 6mm, the size of their hole.
You could set the device to "closed" if the current is greater than 1A, which would connect your micro inverter to your house, and "open" if the current drops below 1A which will then disconnect the micro.
(Assuming he device is direction aware) thereby preventing feedback into the grid.
You would then get a sawtooth wave as the micro ramps up production, hits the 1A limit, switches off, waits 600 seconds and starts the process again.
Legally you would be 2 for 3 (you lose 1 point if you are using the ReneSola micro, as NRS cert. is only due in 3-6 months).
This is about as close as you can come to legal, you would need a base load of 500W to make it viable, so a monthly electricity spend of at least R 1000.00.
Buying the device from the site gives:
53.79 € (unit) + 62.11 € (shipping via TNT) = 115.90 € ~ R 1,740.37 (which adds 1 year to the amortization)
Kind regards
Peter
Evolt Energy.