fairlady, I agree. As I've noticed for a while now, there's an
agressive and belligerent attitude being shown on this forum
towards new IBursters experiencing a much lower quality product
than what they were sold.
Instead of this simple fact being acknowledged, it seems that
there are users who suspiciously attack and defend almost
every aspect of the IBurst product, and do this, regardless
of the simple honest unhappiness expressed from the newbie
IBursters.
Saying 'well get another service, its your problem' - or at best,
offering 'workarounds' to bypass the blocks inherent to the IBurst
product itself, and attacking those who don't want to have to do
this - is to be doing a disservice to this Forum.
Certain users here seem to be defending IBurst at the expense
of actually genuinely helping the new arrivals in any real way -
namely:
to understand that the service they've just bought, is flawed at
best, and utterly inadequate, at worst.
If newbie IBursters have problems, or are struggling with the IBurst
'experience' - its really not acceptable for Forumites to be sneering like
children at them, and offering juvenile suggestions that they're 'stupid' in
some way or that 'they should have known' or similar.
They're here, they're newbies, they need help. Real help. They're not
a punching bag for the hidden agenda's of certain users who seem
continually keen to mock, attack and generally act in a pretty negative
way towards the new signed up IBursters, who find their way to this
Forum.
No fingers being pointed at any individuals - but geez folks, take a
step back and ask yourself what you think you're doing when you talk
to the new signed up guys who are fresh on Forum and struggling -
don't you realise you're not helping them at all?
Or is this your actual intention?
You don't 'help' by defensively justifying and protecting IBurst as
a product, (unless of course you actually work for IBurst, and want
to intimidate and silence its customers who find their way onto this
Forum, looking for an honest view and understanding of what they've
just bought.)
In my view, some of you folks are slowly but surely giving this Forum
a bad name, by your ongoing actions and behaviour towards the new
arrivals. It's not really acceptable behaviour, in my view - however
you might want to justify it.
Try being friendly, and realising that new guys are simply reporting
their experiences honestly, and looking for help, and an honest
view of their situation - they aren't here for you to be sneering at,
or insulting.
If that's the best that certain Forumites can do, then those Forumites
should do this Forum a favour and leave.