I was actually double summoned to this thread!
thank you akasha and FAnie!
ok so lets start
/rubs hands together
we need more info. what kind of things are you getting into? are we talking "hey look clothes pins"
or are we talking "I have a riding crop and a leather whip"?
next up. its better to talk save words before things get to out of hand. a safe word needs to be something completely non sexual. I recommend Winston Churchill as a safe word. because after that there will be no more of anything, where red, or Rose or banana can still be misconstrued as sexual.
and last but not least, congratulations, welcome to the fun world, I hope you enjoy your stay. but remember, sometimes just plain vanilla sex is still good. dont loose sight of that