Open relationship with your partner

Do you do it and tell

  • 1. Yes, full disclosure

    Votes: 12 17.4%

  • 2. Yes, but keep it secret

    Votes: 2 2.9%

  • 3. No, don't ever do it

    Votes: 52 75.4%

  • 4. Other- please tell

    Votes: 3 4.3%
  • Total voters
    69
Brian_G said:
Yep. From what I've seen, women are often more emotional and that's the main contributor. So two women...
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You would think, but it's the men who catch the feelings and want get more serious and "take things to a new level" that was never on the cards to start with.

Women can stick to the program and when it fizzles out call it a day and move along.
 
SauRoNZA said:
You would think, but it's the men who catch the feelings and want get more serious and "take things to a new level" that was never on the cards to start with.

Women can stick to the program and when it fizzles out call it a day and move along.
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Sure, seen examples of that too - I guess it's what you come across most.
 
Brian_G said:
Sure, seen examples of that too - I guess it's what you come across most.
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Yeah end of the day it’s all just past experience and will be different for everyone.

I have also seen two women go completely off the rails.
 
randomcat said:
Alphas very much exist in nature. It's a leader. Put a group of strangers in a room and observe. I'm not saying it will always be a man(given that testosterone causes more risk taking and ambition, it will sway that way).

Incel and misogyny have been thrown around for years but often in the wrong context. Make sure you know the definition, person and situation before use.

Your dislike of having children is concerning. It's the very process that resulted in your existence. Please don't hate yourself that much. We still believe there is hope for you, buddy. I'm not saying you should have children but it would be nice if you understand it plays a role in having a functioning society.
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Guys banging on about how "Alpha" they are always strike me as guys who are deeply insecure and unable to define their own identity in open and free society. The infamous John Goldman/Jack Murphy incident back in the mists of 2016 Alt right is a case in point....

Jack Murphy has built himself up as this "alpha masculine" and was advocating for traditional masculine values for a while since he appeared on Timcast. He has created this masculine society club called the "Luminal Order". He's also the author of "Democrat to deplorable", where he was on the #walkaway movement and not the organisation (I think) .Then on the show "You Are Here" with Elijah Schaffer and Sydney Watson, during the super chat segment, Sydney read out two super chats referring to a "cuck" article that Jack Murphy wrote 5 or so years ago. The first super chat was somewhat dismissed, but the **** show happened when Sydney read the second super chat referring to the "cuck" article. This caused Jack to outburst at Sydney, who knew little to nothing about any of this, or at least was trying to deflect from the situation.

Video of incident:

Since then, rather than own up to it, especially since Sydney made her own video on the matter (
), he was trying to get TheBlaze CEO, Glenn Beck to fire Syndey and Elijah for "the incident" and was creating war rooms and was having what I am just going to word a hissyfit. A lot of disturbing information has come out about Jack and, if you were on this sub long enough, the cuck article is probably the tip of the ice berg of this whole situation. He didn't really address the situation on Tim Pools podcast when he was on and since then....well... just go through the sub, you'll see what came out about Jack Murphy.

IMO: This could have been avoided if Jack just owned up with a "hey, look, those were my past values but I have changed since then. Sorry Sydney", but instead this whole thing kept doubling down to the point where it's near impossible for him to regain his reputation. Bear in mind, he's been building himself up as this masculine alpha male figure with his own man club for years AFTER that article. TheQuartering has been keeping track on this drama, and RikeitaLaw did a livestream discussing his experience with Jack Murphy.

This channel has some clips of some peoples takes on the matter: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR94z-98Bv7wLIDlJyEeF9w/videos
 
Tim_vb said:
Guys banging on about how "Alpha" they are always strike me as guys who are deeply insecure and unable to define their own identity in open and free society. The infamous John Goldman/Jack Murphy incident back in the mists of 2016 Alt right is a case in point....

Jack Murphy has built himself up as this "alpha masculine" and was advocating for traditional masculine values for a while since he appeared on Timcast. He has created this masculine society club called the "Luminal Order". He's also the author of "Democrat to deplorable", where he was on the #walkaway movement and not the organisation (I think) .Then on the show "You Are Here" with Elijah Schaffer and Sydney Watson, during the super chat segment, Sydney read out two super chats referring to a "cuck" article that Jack Murphy wrote 5 or so years ago. The first super chat was somewhat dismissed, but the **** show happened when Sydney read the second super chat referring to the "cuck" article. This caused Jack to outburst at Sydney, who knew little to nothing about any of this, or at least was trying to deflect from the situation.

Video of incident:

Since then, rather than own up to it, especially since Sydney made her own video on the matter (
), he was trying to get TheBlaze CEO, Glenn Beck to fire Syndey and Elijah for "the incident" and was creating war rooms and was having what I am just going to word a hissyfit. A lot of disturbing information has come out about Jack and, if you were on this sub long enough, the cuck article is probably the tip of the ice berg of this whole situation. He didn't really address the situation on Tim Pools podcast when he was on and since then....well... just go through the sub, you'll see what came out about Jack Murphy.

IMO: This could have been avoided if Jack just owned up with a "hey, look, those were my past values but I have changed since then. Sorry Sydney", but instead this whole thing kept doubling down to the point where it's near impossible for him to regain his reputation. Bear in mind, he's been building himself up as this masculine alpha male figure with his own man club for years AFTER that article. TheQuartering has been keeping track on this drama, and RikeitaLaw did a livestream discussing his experience with Jack Murphy.

This channel has some clips of some peoples takes on the matter: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR94z-98Bv7wLIDlJyEeF9w/videos
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Fuuuuuuuck I read the first half of that and I decided to not spend so much time on the internet. I think I want to touch more grass from now on.
 
Baxteen said:
but all around all 5 of us agree children is a burden weak willed people endure due to the idea that they will be the only legacy left of them.
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You may start out as a weak willed person but you will end stronger . Or broken. Raising kids is just life on advanced mode. :laugh:
 
Do people get bored with your partner and that's why you have an open relationship? How don't people get jealous?
 
purple face said:
Do people get bored with your partner and that's why you have an open relationship?
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It's quite individual again, can be that or something like a new infatuation or even a need to have wider experiences. Of course both original partners have to agree to be open.

purple face said:
How don't people get jealous?
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Not everyone gets as emotional, or are maybe sensitive in other ways.
 
purple face said:
Do people get bored with your partner and that's why you have an open relationship? How don't people get jealous?
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First is the need for variety and exploration. ADHD brain needs novelty.

I just don't really see difference between friendships and relationships. No single person will fit all my requirements, some of them are even contradicting. eg. Just physically I like strong fit masculine woman, very soft chubbier woman and also thin petite girls. Why should I limit myself?

Jealousy is not much of a problem, we don't own each other. We get some envious moments though, but it is more funny than an issue. eg. she is making out with a pretty girl who is not into me.
 
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