Partner out without you

Dolby

Dolby

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If your partner goes out to a party without you (for whatever reason), are you interested in hearing about their night out?

I'm probably wrong, but I could not be bothered to hear what they did.
 
They feel bad if you don't bother at all, which is good. :)
 
If I ask and she refuses to tell me then I might get a little suspicious. If she comes home and opts not to tell me without me asking, well that's not a problem...
 
DJK said:
If I ask and she refuses to tell me then I might get a little suspicious. If she comes home and opts not to tell me without me asking, well that's not a problem...
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I think I'm opposite : if she comes home and tells me how wonderful the girls night was, I'd get suspicious about too much information ;)
 
I ask how it was, did she have fun etc to show an interest. But i dont want a step by step run down...

Similarly if she asks me i assume she just wants to know i did not spend every cent we own and whether i am able to function throughout the day
 
I want to hear about the strippers!!!!!

LOLZ!!


We talk about everything i might get worried about it if he says nothing.... has not happen yet.
 
Dolby said:
I think I'm opposite : if she comes home and tells me how wonderful the girls night was, I'd get suspicious about too much information ;)
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Too much and too little info... both are a problem!:p
 
Dolby said:
I think I'm opposite : if she comes home and tells me how wonderful the girls night was, I'd get suspicious about too much information ;)
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That's a trust issue which is your problem, and by letting it get to you, you're just making it her problem as well imo...
 
Well, it would be a tad weird if you share a home with someone and your partner comes home and does not say a single thing about the event ... as if he/she was never there ... generally, people would mention at least a little something, however insignificant.
 
Kim_Webchick said:
Shouldn't go out without the other half in the first place
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Wow what century do you live in? :D

I prefer knowing some details ie. did u have fun, was the food good etc. :cool:

However, my partner sometimes subjects me to the blow by blow :eek:
 
My type of girlfriend wouldn't go to a party where she might feel afterwards that she would have to conceal something from me.

And if she tells me nothing it would be because nothing happened that would be of any significance to me.
 
I absolutely hate it. My mind conjures up a thousand possible events so, by the time said partner returns, I'm such a jumble of imagined betrayals that a night at the pub has become a 3 year affair. I generally tend to keep it under wraps but its never a 100% success rate. Man I love being crazy :|

Either way. I think a lot of how I react is based on *why* I didnt go out with my partner in the first place.
 
almostgone said:
I absolutely hate it. My mind conjures up a thousand possible events so, by the time said partner returns, I'm such a jumble of imagined betrayals that a night at the pub has become a 3 year affair. I generally tend to keep it under wraps but its never a 100% success rate. Man I love being crazy :|

Either way. I think a lot of how I react is based on *why* I didnt go out with my partner in the first place.
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You get 10/10 for honesty at least.
 
Picard said:
My type of girlfriend wouldn't go to a party where she might feel afterwards that she would have to conceal something from me.

And if she tells me nothing it would be because nothing happened that would be of any significance to me.
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She didn't tell you about us? :mad:

She said she was going to!
 
If he wants to talk about it, I will listen. If he doesn't, that's fine.
 
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