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PrOn
- Thread starter Dolby
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You know what bothers me - Guys that watch porn together - thats just weird.
I've had two friends that would put porn on when a group of guys are together - really freaks me out - I generally go sit outside or something.
I've had two friends that would put porn on when a group of guys are together - really freaks me out - I generally go sit outside or something.
Slaine73
Expert Member
Always be very sceptical if your g/f or wife tells you that she don't mind something like this, most times it will come back to bite you in the ass...and not in the nice way
But then there are the very few times where you find out the nice way that they really don't mind
But then there are the very few times where you find out the nice way that they really don't mind
I'm gonna interject here, and reply to the OP...
IMHO porn is a no-no in a marriage. My reason? It makes for unreasonable demands on the sex life.
When one allows porn material in, then one is implicitly setting standards to be reached. For example, if it is static content (photos), then the bar is raised against the spouse (looks). If we're talking movies or stories, then the bar is raised for the actual act. In both cases, you can guess which one will eventually lose out (unless one is married to a porn star - which I doubt).
Think I'm wrong? I speak from experience (though by the grace of God I have recovered from it). Try me.
IMHO porn is a no-no in a marriage. My reason? It makes for unreasonable demands on the sex life.
When one allows porn material in, then one is implicitly setting standards to be reached. For example, if it is static content (photos), then the bar is raised against the spouse (looks). If we're talking movies or stories, then the bar is raised for the actual act. In both cases, you can guess which one will eventually lose out (unless one is married to a porn star - which I doubt).
Think I'm wrong? I speak from experience (though by the grace of God I have recovered from it). Try me.
mercurial
MyBB Legend
I think that depends on the individuals. There are women out there that love porn. I think porn makes the sex life way more exciting, I mean who TF wants to do missionary forever? 
killadoob
Honorary Master
Dude what is unreasonable about doing it porno style?
I thought sex was a 2 way thing, you give you receive type thing so are you telling me marriage it's all about 5 minute climb on top, get off and sneakily fap to porn because the sex is so boring you wanna die?
Yea exactly merc, you can only screw missionary for so long before fapping to porn becomes the only way to truly get off.
I thought sex was a 2 way thing, you give you receive type thing so are you telling me marriage it's all about 5 minute climb on top, get off and sneakily fap to porn because the sex is so boring you wanna die?
Yea exactly merc, you can only screw missionary for so long before fapping to porn becomes the only way to truly get off.
Mila
Honorary Master
Oke i have to admit that some of the photoshoped girls in pics are dam pretty, But dude have you watched porn? Most of the women is fugly and horrible boobjobs. No the Cosmo and E! makes me more insecure than porn.
Yeh - all my girlfriends - even the one who doesn't like porno's - likes the idea of sex being porno style.
Religion generally screws things up (no offense to religious people). I remember them teaching in my HIGHLY religious school that masturbation was a sin. I mean - WTF is up with that?
Religion generally screws things up (no offense to religious people). I remember them teaching in my HIGHLY religious school that masturbation was a sin. I mean - WTF is up with that?
Nah - you get some really hot porn stars - but I agree with you on the plastic ones, CANT STAND 'EM.
Mila
Honorary Master
Jip i was in such a school too.
And by the way sex in soaps are much more to live up to than porn sex.
And by the way sex in soaps are much more to live up to than porn sex.
Who says you have to?I think that depends on the individuals. There are women out there that love porn. I think porn makes the sex life way more exciting, I mean who TF wants to do missionary forever?
Seriously, you don't need porn to be able to experiment - all you need is a little excitement. Plenty of that in a healthy relationship, surely?
Who cares if he watches it? I just do not get the issue with this.
Have you ever tried the dutch rudder?
Yeah, I'm sorry ... but that's a bit gay.
Mila
Honorary Master
I only recently became enlightenedHave you ever tried the dutch rudder?
Veroland
Executive Member
As soon as me and my now wife got serious I told her I watch pron and if there she has a problem with it we won't work. Well, we are married now!
Have you ever tried the dutch rudder?
I only recently became enlightened
I googled it - W-T-F!
Mila
Honorary Master
Now i'm going too google it too
Try image search
Its a cross between a handjob and masturbation - I mean - WTF.
Datura
Captain Faptastic
Monkeyface. Messed up
Mila
Honorary Master
Bwhahahahahaahahahaahahahahsnortsnortbwhaahahahahahaha!!!!
Double dutch!
Bwhahahahahahahaha!!
Double dutch!
Bwhahahahahahahaha!!
Try image search
Its a cross between a handjob and masturbation - I mean - WTF.
It's from the comedy "Zach & Miri make a porno" where Jay (From Jay & Silent Bob) explains to Zach what "The dutch rudder" is.
"No worries man it's not gay ... your not even touching my wiener ... you're just grabbing my arm and moving it while I hold my own wang."
Now to tickle your curiosity, google "The DOUBLE Dutch Rudder"
I laughed so badly in that movie!