If it was LA batteries I could tell you for sure. Resting voltage matters when determining SOC. lithium I don’t know. Do they report 100 when connected together or disconnected? And does lithium need to be left standing for a couple of hours to verify the SOC like LA? I haven’t researched my on how BMSs report their SoC.
If one says 40 and the other 60 when discharging then they most definitely couldn’t be at the same SOC to begin with. Or there is a problem with one being discharged quicker than the other. Or one has a faulty cell and is working as a 15 cell battery?
Will powess had all his batteries connected at the same SOC then he started charging and discharging them. And because the cabling wasn’t done in a way to properly cajrge and discharge them equally, some batteries drifted during the one charge/ discharge cycle quite a bit. One battery was pulling for example 20A and another 10 amps.
Doesn’t matter if they are in parallel, they will never balance and share the load