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Okay so, I have a new boyfriend. And as with every other guy I've dated, I kinda like ... get addicted to his penis... The longest relationship I've had was 8 months and I never got tired of sex. If anything, the relationship irritated me and went down the drain but the sex just kept getting better.

Now my question to people who are married/have been in relationships for years, do you get tired of sex?
Did your SO get tired of sex at some point?
Are people always happy with vanilla sex?
At which point in the relationship is it acceptable to introduce your darker side to the bedroom?

(Also for men 30+, do the excessive juices stop flowing so freely at some point?)
 
The length of relationship shouldn't affect your enjoyment for sex unless you got some problems in other areas (emotional, physical). I've been with the same girl for almost 4 years and I want her just as hard as I did the first time I saw her, actually, even more. Idk, maybe it's because I'm 24, but honestly, if they're attractive (in whatever way you find them attractive) I don't think you will get tired of sex ever?

And she's changed a lot during the last four years too, she was 56 kg's when we met and now she's pushing 66 kg's and tbh I couldn't care less I didn't even notice and when she told me I was shocked cause she looks the same to me. I guess if you put it on over 4 years you don't notice but **** I love her just as much :)
 
Normalguy said:
Damn fat chicks that come online and post **** like this.
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I'll post just whatever I feel like posting. What exactly does your comment contribute? If you don't have an opinion worth anything, gtfo my thread
 
Admiral Snackbar said:
And she's changed a lot during the last four years too, she was 56 kg's when we met and now she's pushing 66 kg's and tbh I couldn't care less I didn't even notice and when she told me I was shocked cause she looks the same to me.
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IT'S A TRAP!

/sorry, could not resist

:)
 
ScottulusMaximus said:
No
Yes but it's cos she had an odd reaction to new birth control
No
Immediately
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Pretty much that...maybe a little slower but pretty soon. Sexuality isn't something divorced from the rest of your personality...if you're being yourself around the SO, chances are he's already been getting hints about stuff like that. You do you, boo boo.
 
Admiral Snackbar said:
The length of relationship shouldn't affect your enjoyment for sex unless you got some problems in other areas (emotional, physical). I've been with the same girl for almost 4 years and I want her just as hard as I did the first time I saw her, actually, even more. Idk, maybe it's because I'm 24, but honestly, if they're attractive (in whatever way you find them attractive) I don't think you will get tired of sex ever?

And she's changed a lot during the last four years too, she was 56 kg's when we met and now she's pushing 66 kg's and tbh I couldn't care less I didn't even notice and when she told me I was shocked cause she looks the same to me. I guess if you put it on over 4 years you don't notice but **** I love her just as much :)
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good on you ...... sounds like you could marry this girl ye ;)
 
Akasha said:
Okay so, I have a new boyfriend. And as with every other guy I've dated, I kinda like ... get addicted to his penis... The longest relationship I've had was 8 months and I never got tired of sex. If anything, the relationship irritated me and went down the drain but the sex just kept getting better.

Now my question to people who are married/have been in relationships for years, do you get tired of sex?
Did your SO get tired of sex at some point?
Are people always happy with vanilla sex?
At which point in the relationship is it acceptable to introduce your darker side to the bedroom?

(Also for men 30+, do the excessive juices stop flowing so freely at some point?)
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There are too few of you around......
 
1 - Never
2 - No
3 - Depends on the mood
4 - asap (don't wait to expose your freak desires becuase the earlier you know you are compatible the better) In fact I warned my GF before we started having a sexual relationship :D ... be prepared :twisted:
5 - maybe more? ... 40 now
 
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My wife and I met when we were both 19 and were together for 20 very happy years during wich the nookie onlt got better over time.
Nb. Once kids arrive things will change but that is for another thread ;-)

No
No
In a healthy relationship you both try to please the other before yourself and communication/honesty is key (not just for the sex) so that should not be an issue
Be honest with each other - it prevents and resolves a lot of issues
Nope!! (Turning 40 in a few months)
 
Akasha said:
Okay so, I have a new boyfriend. And as with every other guy I've dated, I kinda like ... get addicted to his penis... The longest relationship I've had was 8 months and I never got tired of sex. If anything, the relationship irritated me and went down the drain but the sex just kept getting better.

Now my question to people who are married/have been in relationships for years, do you get tired of sex?
Did your SO get tired of sex at some point?
Are people always happy with vanilla sex?
At which point in the relationship is it acceptable to introduce your darker side to the bedroom?

(Also for men 30+, do the excessive juices stop flowing so freely at some point?)
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32 here. No :D
 
Akasha said:
Okay so, I have a new boyfriend. And as with every other guy I've dated, I kinda like ... get addicted to his penis... The longest relationship I've had was 8 months and I never got tired of sex. If anything, the relationship irritated me and went down the drain but the sex just kept getting better.

Now my question to people who are married/have been in relationships for years, do you get tired of sex?
Did your SO get tired of sex at some point?
Are people always happy with vanilla sex?
At which point in the relationship is it acceptable to introduce your darker side to the bedroom?

(Also for men 30+, do the excessive juices stop flowing so freely at some point?)
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Will you please marry me?
 
Neoprod said:
Pretty much that...maybe a little slower but pretty soon. Sexuality isn't something divorced from the rest of your personality...if you're being yourself around the SO, chances are he's already been getting hints about stuff like that. You do you, boo boo.
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I wouldn't bring up the ball gags and anal fisting before dessert but pretty soon is quite important

Hamster said:
Well fsck. I'm about to turn 30. This wasn't in the manual :mad:
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Haha, your SO should know every filthy thing in your head, and you should know hers, makes things a lot easier

SirFooK'nG said:
asap (don't wait to expose your freak desires becuase the earlier you know you are compatible the better) In fact I warned my GF before we started having a sexual relationship :D ... be prepared :twisted:
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That.

OCP said:
In a healthy relationship you both try to please the other before yourself and communication/honesty is key (not just for the sex) so that should not be an issue
Be honest with each other - it prevents and resolves a lot of issues
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And that
 
Unleash the freak!!!!

And, no, in my experience, a man's libido doesn't slow down in his 30's.
 
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