At the end of the day I don't mind starting up XBMC on the MySQL box and update the library and have the PI show the updated library. As Long as the PI can mark the content as watched once I have watched it?
Then when I get new media I am happy to update the library on the MySQL box and then use the PI as main pc to way h in lounge.
Would that work?
Appreciate your input btw.
That will work - the Pi doesn't require the main XBMC to be open to update the show status in the library - the main XBMC is only there to read in new content from your "Watch" folder.