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You let your girlfriend check your whatsapp messages?
You deserve whatever you get.
I've been dating this girl for 4 months. Basically in love with her, to put it in a nutshell. Yesterday she saw a conversation between me and a friend of mine (girl) on whatsapp. I however know this girl for many years and consider her a very good friend. In the conversation we spoke about my gf getting jealous over a very small incident that occured on fb and it being childish to an extent. My friend also likes making comments about my physique and made some remarks about me looking good etc. I just said thanx "babe" which means nothing according to me.
Anyway my gf started crying after reading this and was totally down in the dumps. I tried explaining but to no avail. She wants nothing to do with me, and is now liking other guys pics and chatting to them on fb etc. (note i'm not stalking, stuff pops up on my newsfeeds). She says that she wants to wait before she changes her relationship status on fb because she's not ready to answer all the questions. I however feel this is unfair towards me, because i care for her and here i'm still showing up as in a relationship with her but she's chatting up to guys and hates me.
I also don't want to immediately change my status due to the fact that she might change her mind and forgive me (still don't feel i was really at fault). What should i do?
Love this girl and this situation is quite painful.
OMG! OP I can totally relate to this, I'm in this sorta relationship right now. last nights issue was me sitting at the back of the car with my SO best friend throwing up, while my SO was driving. I was then told I was trying to kiss him :wtf: I'm totally lost for words.
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OMG! OP I can totally relate to this, I'm in this sorta relationship right now. last nights issue was me sitting at the back of the car with my SO best friend throwing up, while my SO was driving. I was then told I was trying to kiss him :wtf: I'm totally lost for words.
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OMG! OP I can totally relate to this, I'm in this sorta relationship right now. last nights issue was me sitting at the back of the car with my SO best friend throwing up, while my SO was driving. I was then told I was trying to kiss him :wtf: I'm totally lost for words.
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she changed it, so doesn't really matter now...thanx for the "bashing"
i call my girl friends darling and dear and schit
dont mean schit
:wtf: the two of you were just sitting together throwing up? Simultaneously or taking turns? Is that like some sort of gay bonding thing? Do you have gay throwing-up parties? Do you all just hire a venue then sit around holding hands and throwing up?
do you call them babe?
i call my girl friends darling and dear and schit
dont mean schit
fixedYou mean like "hey dear schit, how've you been?"
Odd term of endearment.
You mean like "hey schit, how've you been?"
Odd term of endearment.
she is still in love with you china. Chatting up other guys to get you jealous, and doesn't want to change the relationship status online because she doesn't want to change the relationship status with you for real.
If you do some serious sucking up you'll be able to get her back- no problem- she just wants you to pursue her a little and prove your feelings.
Btw- calling another chick babe is a big deal. Apologise and get back on the wagon.
And if you balls it up again, I'm looking for a team mate for Orcs must die.
Sorry, really off topic. Are you looking for a steam buddy for orcs must die 2? Looking for one as well.
Sorry, really off topic. Are you looking for a steam buddy for orcs must die 2? Looking for one as well.