Selfish lover

smallearth said:
Either one is compatible or one is not. I've never understood the concept of changing one's lifestyle to suit one's partner.

It's like wearing different clothing because they like it. Or growing a beard because they like it. Why would one do that?
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Would you grow a beard if you SO didn't like it, but you did?
 
faniedry said:
Would you grow a beard if you SO didn't like it, but you did?
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After she met me and we became partners, it's a different story. But sure as hell I'm not eating pineapple for two weeks, or shaving my beard, or any other behavioral or cosmetic change just to suit her. And I don't expect that of her.
 
Rocket Raccoon said:
We talked the next day and she didn't like the taste of it in her mouth. Told her jokingly her she was being selfish about it and she got upset about it. Last night we had sex again and it was the same again.
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Haven't read the whole tread, but what does she mean the taste? Washed and cleaned there should be very little taste during the blowjob?* Maybe she had an unclean previous partner?

*I haven't sucked penis so don't know, I'm always make sure i'm nice and clean, but those who have sucked penis, am I wrong or right on the taste part?
 
supersunbird said:
Haven't read the whole tread, but what does she mean the taste? Washed and cleaned there should be very little taste during the blowjob?* Maybe she had an unclean previous partner?

*I haven't sucked penis so don't know, I'm always make sure i'm nice and clean, but those who have sucked penis, am I wrong or right on the taste part?
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Pretty sure she was referring to the taste of semen. If not...just wash better
 
Ockie said:
U get a numbing spray for that. A friend let me try his and it does numb it a bit. Need to be careful not to give the BJ too soon after spraying it in else he will loose sensation in his cock also. :)
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Goodgod! What next?
 
satanboy said:
anyone mention Pineapple juice yet?
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To apply topically or to drink? I know if you feed your dogs pineapple then they won't eat each other's poo. Same principle? :sick:

/read rest of posts...Oh I see.
 
the one being selfish here isn't her, it's you, for complaining about her being "selfish". everyone has their preferences, if she doesn't like giving bj's, deal with it and move on. it's not the end of the world. if it's great sex, why worry and call her selfish because of it?

practice selflessness on your part, be the bigger man and for god sake don't throw it in her face if you fight and say bs like "but I go down on you because I'm selfless" because that's exactly the opposite.

After a year or so of being together, and she asks you what you want for your bday, say a bj. bet she'll oblige.
 
envo said:
the one being selfish here isn't her, it's you, for complaining about her being "selfish". everyone has their preferences, if she doesn't like giving bj's, deal with it and move on. it's not the end of the world. if it's great sex, why worry and call her selfish because of it?

practice selflessness on your part, be the bigger man and for god sake don't throw it in her face if you fight and say bs like "but I go down on you because I'm selfless" because that's exactly the opposite.

After a year or so of being together, and she asks you what you want for your bday, say a bj. bet she'll oblige.
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But 69?
 
envo said:
the one being selfish here isn't her, it's you, for complaining about her being "selfish". everyone has their preferences, if she doesn't like giving bj's, deal with it and move on. it's not the end of the world. if it's great sex, why worry and call her selfish because of it?

practice selflessness on your part, be the bigger man and for god sake don't throw it in her face if you fight and say bs like "but I go down on you because I'm selfless" because that's exactly the opposite.

After a year or so of being together, and she asks you what you want for your bday, say a bj. bet she'll oblige.
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Whipped! In all seriousness, would you say the same thing if it was the other way round? Every women a chick knows would be informed in minutes if you told her you didn't eat pussy. "What a sexist *******!".
 
envo said:
the one being selfish here isn't her, it's you, for complaining about her being "selfish". everyone has their preferences, if she doesn't like giving bj's, deal with it and move on. it's not the end of the world. if it's great sex, why worry and call her selfish because of it?

practice selflessness on your part, be the bigger man and for god sake don't throw it in her face if you fight and say bs like "but I go down on you because I'm selfless" because that's exactly the opposite.

After a year or so of being together, and she asks you what you want for your bday, say a bj. bet she'll oblige.
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bullschit! sex is about giving, pleasing. p*ssy does not taste good, fact. but making someone feel good by eating it wins hands down. same goes for a bj. of course sucking cock is not eating chocolate cake, but god damnit, if you can please your lover by doing it, why not?

it's not like he's asking her to stick her finger in his arsehole :erm:
 
faniedry said:
bullschit! sex is about giving, pleasing. p*ssy does not taste good, fact. but making someone feel good by eating it wins hands down. same goes for a bj. of course sucking cock is not eating chocolate cake, but god damnit, if you can please your lover by doing it, why not?

it's not like he's asking her to stick her finger in his arsehole :erm:
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:erm:

Speak for yourself. I love the taste :o
 
faniedry said:
lol ok, you also like olives and whiskey? but lets be honest, it's an acquired taste
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Olives yes, whiskey no.

I do get it though. And I fully understand that some women will like the taste of D and other won't. That's just how it is. I have no issues giving and will take a BJ if I get one but I would much rather give to her and then enjoy a nice porking session instead :o
 
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