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Now if you've watched the movie you know that the dude cant get this girl out of his head after 3 years have gone by and he's about to get married.
Eventually he ends up with her and they live happily ever after I suppose, but what they don't show is him or her telling the other person it's over...

Herein lies my question, do you forget about that person and hope to God you never see them again and that you'll be able to stay true to the person you're seeing?
I'm in a serious relationship with someone, I moved outa town away from the other one and now my gf has moved almost 700km for a new job.

I go back home almost every weekend but lock myself inside the house out of fear of seeing the other girl. Then I have to start working on a long distance relationship after having done that for the 1st year of the relationship and hating it.

I've thought about this quite a bit and been asked by many if I really love my gf and I still say I believe I do as the I never want to hurt her and I want her to be happy.

I know I won't get an "answer" as to what I'm supposed to do but just need some perspective and to get this out there as Im losing my mind not being able to talk to anyone about it.:(
 
I'm confused? Did you break up with that person? If so then whats worrying you? If you see an ex so be it.
Are you worried you might develop feelings again?
 
Go get coffee with your ex.
If there are feelings and it ruins your relationship, then it was fragile to begin with.
 
We were good friends then one night things went too far. We both salvaged our relationships, this meant we're not allowed to see or speak anymore. She sms'd me about a month ago and my gf went nuts. So coffee would be a bad idea. Wonder if electro shock therapy would get her outa my head.
 
Maybe you should have dated her...
Are you happy with your current relationship? Something to think about.

I have this one girl I can't get out of my head after over 3 years. She's in a relationship and I'm leaving the country in July. So my chances don't look good :(
Sometimes you just have to move on.
 
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