Should I Block Her?

Polymathic said:
So I met this female less than 2 months ago and we've been chatting since then more or less. See there's a significant age gap me in my 30s and she being a student studying media something or other, I can't remember what exactly. Me getting her contact was just on a whim, a what the hell why not thing. Didn't really expect her to give her contact if I'm being honest.

Because of the age gap I decided not to put in any effort with this girl. So we message off an on a like a week, whenever the topic of clothing/fashion comes up she'd send pics of what's she's wearing, a couple times sent some raunchier stuff (not as far as nudes though)

So one day she's messages me saying she's sick in bed (not the COVID)
Some context is needed personally when a SO is sick I take care of them hand and foot but I do enjoy trolling them just for the LOLs.

So anyway I start trolling her. Eventually said something that really offended her and she said that she's going to delete my contact and must never contact her again. I replied "okay; bye" and deleted her contact.

6 days she messages me again. I was feeling guilty for trolling her when she was feeling sick vulnerable so I apologised. So we get chatted for a couple days one and off until I said something else that offended her. She said "I'm not going to talk you any more" my response was "LOL, Okay bye"

About a week later guess who messages me again? This time I didn't apologize and both of us didn't bring her previous hissy fit up. It took couple days before I somehow offended her again "for being rude" and I laughed it off.

You guys should know the pattern now. This happened a couple more times and each of those times I basically laughed it off and said bye. And she's always the one reinitiating the conversation.

Anyway we were chatting early this morning and pissed her off again with a joke essentially I asked what pronouns she prefers I use to refer to her and gave me a line about how old that joke is and she ended the conversation abruptly.

After that interaction I'm questioning whether to just block her.

First of all no I'm not going to dox her so don't ask for pics however I will say she's not bad looking with borderline D cups. She has the features to be a model but the type of model that you wouldn't know she was a model when not fully made up. With the right makeup and the right camera angle she does look stunning, less so normal everyday makeup and other angles

Personally I'm ambivalent about her, don't really care either way. By no means am I drowning in pussy but I am getting some action (nothing serious).

I'm not if this girl is proper psycho or what.

What would the MyBB brain trust do if they were in my situation?
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You're having emotionally charged conversations with what is effectively a child. She needs someone her age to play this game with, and that will answer more to her acceptance...
 
Polymathic said:
not Double Ds, High C cup possibly low D Cup depending on the brand.
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You're giving us mixed stories here. If you are not confident in your assessment of these boobs, please post some pics of them so we can see for ourselves.

Just tell her that you need pics of her boobs for your perv internet friends. This will be consistent with your treatment of her up to now.
 
3WA said:
You're giving us mixed stories here. If you are not confident in your assessment of these boobs, please post some pics of them so we can see for ourselves.

Just tell her that you need pics of her boobs for your perv internet friends. This will be consistent with your treatment of her up to now.
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Pity that I deleted all the pics she had sent me. :sneaky:
 
Polymathic said:
So I met this female less than 2 months ago and we've been chatting since then more or less. See there's a significant age gap me in my 30s and she being a student studying media something or other, I can't remember what exactly. Me getting her contact was just on a whim, a what the hell why not thing. Didn't really expect her to give her contact if I'm being honest.

Because of the age gap I decided not to put in any effort with this girl. So we message off an on a like a week, whenever the topic of clothing/fashion comes up she'd send pics of what's she's wearing, a couple times sent some raunchier stuff (not as far as nudes though)

So one day she's messages me saying she's sick in bed (not the COVID)
Some context is needed personally when a SO is sick I take care of them hand and foot but I do enjoy trolling them just for the LOLs.

So anyway I start trolling her. Eventually said something that really offended her and she said that she's going to delete my contact and must never contact her again. I replied "okay; bye" and deleted her contact.

6 days she messages me again. I was feeling guilty for trolling her when she was feeling sick vulnerable so I apologised. So we get chatted for a couple days one and off until I said something else that offended her. She said "I'm not going to talk you any more" my response was "LOL, Okay bye"

About a week later guess who messages me again? This time I didn't apologize and both of us didn't bring her previous hissy fit up. It took couple days before I somehow offended her again "for being rude" and I laughed it off.

You guys should know the pattern now. This happened a couple more times and each of those times I basically laughed it off and said bye. And she's always the one reinitiating the conversation.

Anyway we were chatting early this morning and pissed her off again with a joke essentially I asked what pronouns she prefers I use to refer to her and gave me a line about how old that joke is and she ended the conversation abruptly.

After that interaction I'm questioning whether to just block her.

First of all no I'm not going to dox her so don't ask for pics however I will say she's not bad looking with borderline D cups. She has the features to be a model but the type of model that you wouldn't know she was a model when not fully made up. With the right makeup and the right camera angle she does look stunning, less so normal everyday makeup and other angles

Personally I'm ambivalent about her, don't really care either way. By no means am I drowning in pussy but I am getting some action (nothing serious).

I'm not if this girl is proper psycho or what.

What would the MyBB brain trust do if they were in my situation?
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Stop being so rude bruh
 
Pump & dump.

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Polymathic said:
So you reckon smash and dash?
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Even, that, think very carefully. The situation will vary so I can't really say for certain but when you see things like this, it's often better to not entertain from the start as tempting as it may be. It may suck in the moment and take some will power but you will be glad in the long-run.

But far too many guys start of situations like this and then emotional investments start and they get into situations which are hard to get out of. You don't want to get into a dangerous situation where she can become a danger to herself or you.
 
JuliusSeizure said:
Even, that, think very carefully. The situation will vary so I can't really say for certain but when you see things like this, it's often better to not entertain from the start as tempting as it may be. It may suck in the moment and take some will power but you will be glad in the long-run.

But far too many guys start of situations like this and then emotional investments start and they get into situations which are hard to get out of. You don't want to get into a dangerous situation where she can become a danger to herself or you.
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26 years old and so wise......yeah Seizure man :rolleyes:
 
JuliusSeizure said:
Lol, I am far from a magnate with women but I have seen this situation happen with family and friends and it is not good. It can mess up your life.

I was also in a bit of a similar situation in 2016 with a girl who wanted me to date her. I had to tell her from the start that I did not want to and it was bad doing so in the moment but in the long-run, it is for the best.
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Magnate or magnet? Big difference.
 
Polymathic said:
So I met this female less than 2 months ago and we've been chatting since then more or less. See there's a significant age gap me in my 30s and she being a student studying media something or other, I can't remember what exactly. Me getting her contact was just on a whim, a what the hell why not thing. Didn't really expect her to give her contact if I'm being honest.

Because of the age gap I decided not to put in any effort with this girl. So we message off an on a like a week, whenever the topic of clothing/fashion comes up she'd send pics of what's she's wearing, a couple times sent some raunchier stuff (not as far as nudes though)

So one day she's messages me saying she's sick in bed (not the COVID)
Some context is needed personally when a SO is sick I take care of them hand and foot but I do enjoy trolling them just for the LOLs.

So anyway I start trolling her. Eventually said something that really offended her and she said that she's going to delete my contact and must never contact her again. I replied "okay; bye" and deleted her contact.

6 days she messages me again. I was feeling guilty for trolling her when she was feeling sick vulnerable so I apologised. So we get chatted for a couple days one and off until I said something else that offended her. She said "I'm not going to talk you any more" my response was "LOL, Okay bye"

About a week later guess who messages me again? This time I didn't apologize and both of us didn't bring her previous hissy fit up. It took couple days before I somehow offended her again "for being rude" and I laughed it off.

You guys should know the pattern now. This happened a couple more times and each of those times I basically laughed it off and said bye. And she's always the one reinitiating the conversation.

Anyway we were chatting early this morning and pissed her off again with a joke essentially I asked what pronouns she prefers I use to refer to her and gave me a line about how old that joke is and she ended the conversation abruptly.

After that interaction I'm questioning whether to just block her.

First of all no I'm not going to dox her so don't ask for pics however I will say she's not bad looking with borderline D cups. She has the features to be a model but the type of model that you wouldn't know she was a model when not fully made up. With the right makeup and the right camera angle she does look stunning, less so normal everyday makeup and other angles

Personally I'm ambivalent about her, don't really care either way. By no means am I drowning in pussy but I am getting some action (nothing serious).

I'm not if this girl is proper psycho or what.

What would the MyBB brain trust do if they were in my situation?
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most people would say your the ass :P. But on the other hand I to do like making jokes and taking the mickey some times, and I am not going to change my personality on a whim to get laid unless she is hawt. It's a simple matter of incompatible personalities rather then a age thing, sure she is just starting out, you sort of on the end stage of fking around, and settling down, that is sure to cause some clashes.

I would be straight, explain my personality, what I am looking for, she will either get with the program, or friendzone you.A random hook up isn't the worse thing to happen if you both agree, just as long you are up front and not a complete douchebag
 
wizardofid said:
I would be straight, explain my personality, what I am looking for, she will either get with the program, or friendzone you.A random hook up isn't the worse thing to happen if you both agree, just as long you are up front and not a complete douchebag
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This. A lot of guys in these type of situations lie and promise the girl the world when all they want is to get laid and then they end up with serious issues once the girls end up emotionally invested.

Lying is really a no-no. Best to be honest from the start and hurt them if you have to then as it's easier then the mess you will end up with later.
 
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