Should I get her a dildo?

Ho3n3r said:
It feels a bit like admitting defeat to me. I.e. for some reason I'm not good enough so here's a dildo instead.

If she asks to buy one that would be fine, but luckily she hasn't yet.
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In all seriousness a dildo is just another tool in the bedroom. Some like to have whips, ropes, and other things. It just adds to the experience. If she leaves due to the dildo that relationship had a lot more problems.
 
Ho3n3r said:
It feels a bit like admitting defeat to me. I.e. for some reason I'm not good enough so here's a dildo instead.

If she asks to buy one that would be fine, but luckily she hasn't yet.
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Toys aid in fun. Not replace it. Double ended dildos mean that you can both benefit. If that's your deal. Vibrating strapons are popular too.
 
Helghast said:
In all seriousness a dildo is just another tool in the bedroom. Some like to have whips, ropes, and other things. It just adds to the experience. If she leaves due to the dildo that relationship had a lot more problems.
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Exactly. Currently we definitely don't need a dildo, so once that needs to become part of the equation, it will feel like we've moved backwards.
 
Ho3n3r said:
Exactly. Currently we definitely don't need a dildo, so once that needs to become part of the equation, it will feel like we've moved backwards.
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All those women and couples dont necessarily need dildos its just an added perk to spice things up. It doesn't need to be used for every single sexual act you do
 
I think you should get her a dildo, let her use it on her own a few times before using it together. This way she will get more comfortable with it and also learn how to use it to her liking.

Let her go on top as well, I know quite a few ladies who find it 1000x easier to climax this way because they can get better clitoral stimulation at their own pace. :) Also, more foreplay. Not necessarily 'licking' etc straight off the bat, set the mood first. Make her laugh, put her in a relaxed mood.
 
I don't know why guys waste their time with women who can't climax or who don't have the decency to fake it. Kick her to the curb.
 
Nick333 said:
I don't know why guys waste their time with women who can't climax or who don't have the decency to fake it. Kick her to the curb.
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I must be a pretty decent gal then:whistle:
Bwahahahaha!




/runs......very, very fast!
 
a fake orgasms is just a reason to punish her with more orgasms, after she fakes one, make her pick a number, then don't stop until she has had that amount. if you cant tell when she is faking you should have a sex change.
 
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