So, what should I do?

This sounds like the perfect recipe for the spread of STD's.

No-one seems to actually give a crap about who they're sleeping with (the chick, you, her new dude) so for all you know, you could all be 'involved' with multiple partners, all spreading the same happy goodness around the party. Sounds awesome!
She sounds like a quite a slapper too, lol.
 
We both went for blood tests before we started anything.
Before they got involved she too asked him to go for an HIV test etc to which he agreed only if she went with.
Which she did.
 
Rachet said:
We both went for blood tests before we started anything.
Before they got involved she too asked him to go for an HIV test etc to which he agreed only if she went with.
Which she did.
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Thats actually pretty cool, and I'm being honest. So you're careful about that, she's careful about that, so the only thing to ask is...do you trust the other dude that he's faithful? He could be the missing link there.

Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I'm just too worried about all this kind of crap. I gotta know a chick, and trust has to be there, sharing is not caring imo. The stats just freak me out...plus its like multilevel marketing. The 'network' grows exponentially, and one dude/chick could bring in his/her own army. There's a reason multilevel marketing isn't sustainable....eventually you run out of new people. Its that easy.
 
markface said:
Thats actually pretty cool, and I'm being honest. So you're careful about that, she's careful about that, so the only thing to ask is...do you trust the other dude that he's faithful? He could be the missing link there.

Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I'm just too worried about all this kind of crap. I gotta know a chick, and trust has to be there, sharing is not caring imo. The stats just freak me out...plus its like multilevel marketing. The 'network' grows exponentially, and one dude/chick could bring in his/her own army. There's a reason multilevel marketing isn't sustainable....eventually you run out of new people. Its that easy.
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Trust me, Im just as paranoid as the next person when it comes to HIV/STD's etc.
When we first started the whole friends with benefits thing, we both were tested. We trust one another completely and that is also what makes it easy to do what we do I think.
Before her and the new guy decided to take the next step they both went for tests too.
Personally, its the right thing to do.
You never know where the other person has been, even though it is none of your business I feel that a standard STD/HIV test should be done with any new partners.
Agreed he could be the weak link in this whole thing.
Guess I don't want to run that risk either.
 
Rachet said:
Trust me, Im just as paranoid as the next person when it comes to HIV/STD's etc.
When we first started the whole friends with benefits thing, we both were tested. We trust one another completely and that is also what makes it easy to do what we do I think.
Before her and the new guy decided to take the next step they both went for tests too.
Personally, its the right thing to do.
You never know where the other person has been, even though it is none of your business I feel that a standard STD/HIV test should be done with any new partners.
Agreed he could be the weak link in this whole thing.
Guess I don't want to run that risk either.
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I thought you were kidding about fscking her?
 
My take :
You are married and can't get married to her...
You like the teasing because your marriage is a bit of a stale mate...
OR
She is playing you with this new guy and wants to take your relationship to th next level....
Can you confirm she has had relations with this new guy...

If she has then run for the hills as she will do it with someone else when she is with you, simple really.

Everyone likes their ego to be stroked but do not let that cloud your judgement..

Anyway, my 2c
 
My Goodness.
My life seems so uninteresting compared to what some people get up too.
 
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